Emotion itself isn't the problem, it's how you carry it or let it out that is.
There are feminine ways to vent emotion like weeping, gossiping, cradling feelings, whatever the hell that hands on thing was in that article.
There are masculine ways to vent emotion like friendly sparring, working out, competing, doing something to build something. Enduring and building endurance for pain is the masculine way.
The more you open the floodgates to expressing in a feminine way, the more instinctually feminine you will become. And likewise for masculine to masculine.
Having groups of guy friends is important, but you are better to have the group steer more towards masculine things.
Reunto 0 points 14 hours ago
Emotion itself isn't the problem, it's how you carry it or let it out that is.
There are feminine ways to vent emotion like weeping, gossiping, cradling feelings, whatever the hell that hands on thing was in that article.
There are masculine ways to vent emotion like friendly sparring, working out, competing, doing something to build something. Enduring and building endurance for pain is the masculine way.
The more you open the floodgates to expressing in a feminine way, the more instinctually feminine you will become. And likewise for masculine to masculine.
Having groups of guy friends is important, but you are better to have the group steer more towards masculine things.