catch 22, if they had enough humility and intelligence to realise that they were shitty, they probably never would've been shitty in the first place. i just limit my interactions with my father, i've tried every tactic to try and make him see sense and it's a waste of time. he's a pure narcissist. i send him a single text for bday/fathers day, put up with maybe 2 phone calls a year where i just let him ramble his garbage, and see him every second xmas. it's a great test of patience, i can't add anything to the conversation without him immediately trying to talk over me. i mainly just put up with it now to make sure i get whatever crumb of inheritance is left after he dies, said crumb under great risk from his new thai wife. ugh...
BlueEyedAngloMasterRaceGod 0 points 7 hours ago
catch 22, if they had enough humility and intelligence to realise that they were shitty, they probably never would've been shitty in the first place. i just limit my interactions with my father, i've tried every tactic to try and make him see sense and it's a waste of time. he's a pure narcissist. i send him a single text for bday/fathers day, put up with maybe 2 phone calls a year where i just let him ramble his garbage, and see him every second xmas. it's a great test of patience, i can't add anything to the conversation without him immediately trying to talk over me. i mainly just put up with it now to make sure i get whatever crumb of inheritance is left after he dies, said crumb under great risk from his new thai wife. ugh...