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Celebrity worshipers are low IQ     (bmcpsychology.biomedcentral.com)
submitted by Conspirologist to Psychology 1 week ago (+7/-3)
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Cuckoldism Vs Pornophilia: Why men date porn actresses     (Psychology)
submitted by Conspirologist to Psychology 3 weeks ago (+2/-4)
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Dedicated to @Joe_McCarthy ad honorem:

Introduction

Sexual transparency is a valued trait in romantic relationships, particularly for men prioritizing physical compatibility (Buss, 2018). However, some non-virgin men report frustration with partners who obscure their sexual past, particularly as women age and adopt provider-seeking strategies that involve concealing “shameful” sexual experiences. This perceived inauthenticity fosters mental fatigue and paranoia, driving some men toward porn actresses, whose public sexual lives appear transparent.

This attraction, often linked to pornophilia (Ley, 2018), mirrors infatuation with traditional actresses who play idealized roles but later reveal these as mere performances. Unlike cuckoldism, which involves fetishized infidelity, pornophilia centers on authenticity and sexual openness. This article explores the psychological and sexological underpinnings of this phenomenon, its distinction from cuckoldism, and potential relational challenges.

Psychological and Sexological Drivers of Attraction

1-Perceived Dishonesty and Age-Related Motives

Evolutionary psychology suggests men prioritize sexual compatibility and transparency in mate selection to ensure reproductive success (Buss, 2018). Younger women, particularly around age 18, are often more naive and forthcoming about their sexual history due to limited life experience and lower social pressure to conform to idealized roles (Regan & Berscheid, 1999). In contrast, older women may adopt provider-seeking strategies, concealing past sexual experiences perceived as shameful to align with societal expectations of chastity (Buss & Shackelford, 1997). This shift can frustrate men, who perceive such behavior as deceptive, undermining relational trust.

2-Mental Fatigue and Paranoia

The effort to discern whether a partner is lying about their sexual past can lead to mental fatigue, a form of cognitive overload linked to trust-related stress (Baumeister & Tierney, 2011). This exhaustion may escalate into paranoia, where men become hypervigilant about potential deception. Sexology research suggests that such paranoia can redirect attraction toward partners perceived as fully transparent, such as porn actresses, whose public sexual displays eliminate ambiguity (Ley, 2018). This shift reflects a desire for relational clarity rather than ongoing suspicion.

3-Sexual Overperception and Pornophilia

Men are prone to sexual overperception bias, overestimating women’s sexual interest, particularly when exposed to pornography (Haselton & Buss, 2000). Frequent pornography consumption, linked to pornophilia, reinforces idealized sexual scripts emphasizing availability and uninhibited behavior (Hald & Malamuth, 2015). Porn actresses, whose on-screen personas align with these scripts, attract men frustrated by restraint or ambiguity in other partners, offering a perceived match to sexual fantasies.
Parallel with Traditional Actresses

This attraction parallels infatuation with traditional actresses who portray idealized characters but later clarify in interviews that these roles are professional performances, not their true selves (Goffman, 1959). Similarly, porn actresses’ hypersexual personas are often misconstrued as personal traits. Men drawn to their transparency may project romantic or sexual ideals onto them, mirroring the disillusionment experienced when traditional actresses reveal their authentic selves.

Cuckoldism vs. Pornophilia

Cuckoldism is a fetish where arousal stems from a partner’s sexual activity with others, often involving humiliation or submission (Ley, 2010). Psychological research links it to eroticizing jealousy or power dynamics, requiring active engagement with a partner’s external encounters.

Pornophilia, in contrast, reflects attraction to porn actresses for their sexual transparency and alignment with men’s sexual ideals (Hald & Malamuth, 2015). It is driven by frustration with inauthenticity, not arousal from sharing a partner. Unlike cuckoldism, pornophilia emphasizes open communication and compatibility, not voyeurism or submission.

Potential Pitfalls and Considerations

1-Unrealistic Expectations from Pornography

Frequent pornography consumption can create unrealistic expectations about sexual performance and attractiveness (Zillmann, 2000). Men may assume porn actresses’ on-screen hypersexuality reflects their personal desires, but sexology research distinguishes acted sex—performed for professional purposes—from authentic preferences (Weitzer, 2010). Many actresses prefer conventional relationships and conservative sexual practices, such as missionary, prioritizing emotional intimacy over performative acts.

2-Disappointment and Disillusionment

Men may feel disappointed when actresses do not exhibit the hypersexuality seen in films. Sexology studies note that sex work is often driven by financial motives, not personal desire, and actresses may experience physical and emotional fatigue, preferring rest over high-energy sexual performances (Sanders, 2016). This mirrors traditional actresses who distance themselves from idealized roles, underscoring the gap between fantasy and reality.

3-Authentic Needs for Intimacy

Research highlights that sex workers, including porn actresses, often seek non-commercial sex and emotional connection in personal relationships, aligning with universal human needs for attachment (Bowlby, 1969; Weitzer, 2010). Men may feel sadness upon learning that porn is “just a job,” as actresses prioritize normalcy—such as cuddling or low-key intimacy—over professional personas. This disconnect can challenge fantasies rooted in pornographic ideals.

4-Relational and Social Challenges

Paranoia from past relational distrust may persist, complicating emotional connections with actresses. Additionally, societal stigma around sex work can strain relationships, as external judgments impact both partners’ well-being (Benoit et al., 2015). Men must navigate these challenges to build mutually fulfilling relationships.

Conclusion

Non-virgin men’s attraction to porn actresses, driven by pornophilia, stems from frustration with perceived dishonesty, particularly as women age and conceal sexual histories to appeal as providers. Mental fatigue and paranoia amplify this attraction, as does the parallel with infatuation toward traditional actresses’ idealized roles.

Unlike cuckoldism, pornophilia prioritizes transparency over fetishized infidelity. However, men may face disillusionment when actresses’ desires for conventional intimacy diverge from professional personas. Psychological and sexological insights underscore the need to distinguish acted sex from authentic needs, fostering realistic expectations for healthier relationships.

References

Baumeister, R. F., & Tierney, J. (2011). Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength. Penguin.

Benoit, C., et al. (2015). Stigma, sex work, and mental health. Journal of Sex Research, 52(7), 759–769.

Bowlby, J. (1969). Attachment and Loss: Vol. 1. Attachment. Basic Books.

Buss, D. M. (2018). Evolutionary Psychology: The New Science of the Mind. Routledge.

Buss, D. M., & Shackelford, T. K. (1997). From vigilance to violence: Mate retention tactics. Psychological Inquiry, 8(3), 234–237.

Goffman, E. (1959). The Presentation of Self in Everyday Life. Anchor Books.

Hald, G. M., & Malamuth, N. M. (2015). Pornography consumption and sexual behavior. Sexualities, 18(5–6), 622–644.

Haselton, M. G., & Buss, D. M. (2000). Error management theory: A new perspective on biases in cross-sex mind reading. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 78(1), 81–91.

Ley, D. J. (2010). Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them. Rowman & Littlefield.

Ley, D. J. (2018). The psychology of pornography use. Psychology Today.

Regan, P. C., & Berscheid, E. (1999). Lust: What We Know About Human Sexual Desire. Sage.

Sanders, T. (2016). The emotional labor of sex work. Sexualities, 19(1–2), 141–160.

Weitzer, R. (2010). Sex for Sale: Prostitution, Pornography, and the Sex Industry. Routledge.

Zillmann, D. (2000). Influence of unrestrained access to erotica on adolescents’ and young adults’ dispositions toward sexuality. Journal of Adolescent Health, 27(2), 41–44.

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Relationships Talk with Dangus     (Psychology)
submitted by paul_neri to Psychology 1 month ago (+2/-1)
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At our last session, dangus, where we discussed my "my-way-or-the-highway- -controlling-wife" ... you told me (as Voat's Agony Aunt) to "man up" and "grow some" which I found quite hurtful! Anyway...the approach I now take with her is what some might call "reverse psychology". For example. we have two favourite beaches X and Y. When a beach day comes about she'll inevitably ask me which beach I'd prefer to go to. If it's beach Y, I'll say Beach X because I know I'll be automatically overruled, which I am, and I get to go to beach Y, the beach of my choice! How clever is that!
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Myers-Briggs personality types     (files.catbox.moe)
submitted by Eliack to Psychology 3 months ago (+4/-0)
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Unnecessary Lobotomies. Brought to You By….Psychiatry!      (youtube.com)
submitted by TheBigGuyFromQueens to Psychology 5 months ago (+14/-2)
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https://youtube.com/shorts/G9dA3c8HLWI?si=FpPp-PMS1dxCLs15

If you want to be on drugs for the rest of your life until you kill yourself or to be shocked until you drool into docility, there’s PSYCHIATRY!

Brought to you by…JEWS!

Jews: We CREATE the problems, so we can charge you to “FIX” them.
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I Have Almost No Respect For Psychology and Here Is Yet Another Reason Why     (en.m.wikipedia.org)
submitted by TheBigGuyFromQueens to Psychology 7 months ago (+3/-0)
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Olive_Byrne

These degenerates hide in plain sight and are able to operate freely by employing the deceptive word salad gobbleygook of academia, which acts aa a cocoon-like protective guild that will lend credence to their creepiness and legitimize it in the name of science. Who would have though that “Wonder Woman” was inspired by the sexual dalliances of this creep and his equally disgusting wife? I can’t even directly blame this on Jews.
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Dr. Richard Lynn - The Dissident Psychologist     (youtu.be)
submitted by SilentByAssociation to Psychology 9 months ago (+1/-0)
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Gender dysphoria more common among girls because they are more easily socially manipulated      (twitter.com)
submitted by SumerBreeze to Psychology 1.2 years ago (+16/-0)
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That's not a psyop, this is a psyop     (files.catbox.moe)
submitted by UncleDoug to Psychology 1.4 years ago (+24/-0)
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Optimism is associated with lower cognitive skills     (neurosciencenews.com)
submitted by Conspirologist to Psychology 1.5 years ago (+4/-7)
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How to Escape Mediocrity and Mental Illness - The Road Less Traveled [14:44] Academy of Ideas      (vid.puffyan.us)
submitted by Love240 to Psychology 1.5 years ago (+5/-0)
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The Psychology of Malignant Narcissists - People of the Lie [13:57]     (www.youtube.com)
submitted by Love240 to Psychology 1.7 years ago (+1/-0)
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MILGRAM EXPERINMENT SECRET: RELIGIOUS LEAST LIKELY TO COMPLY WITH "AUTHORITY"     (archive.org)
submitted by observation1 to Psychology 1.9 years ago (+4/-0)
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https://archive.org/stream/ObedienceToAuthority_368/milgram_djvu.txt

Reading details of Milgrams authority experiment, reveals the outsiders who said 'no' were practicing their faith, likely conservative, and non-native European immigrants

Jan Rensaleer, Industrial Engineer (in Experiment 2)

The subject is a thirty- two-year-old industrial engineer, sporting blond hair and a mustache. He is
self-contained and speaks with a trace of a foreign accent. He is neatly dressed. In the interview he tells us that he emigrated from Holland after the Second World War and that he is a member of the Dutch Re-formed Church. He is mild-mannered and intelligent.

When the victim complains at the 150-volt level, the subject turns to the experimenter and asks,
“What do I do now?”

The experimenter tells him to continue. The engineer presses his hand to his head and proceeds with
the test. He glances more and more often at the experimenter. At 255 volts, he pushes the chair away
from the shock generator and turns to the experimenter:


MR. RENSALEER: Oh, I can’t continue this way; it’s a voluntary program, if the man doesn’t want
to go on with it.

EXPERIMENTER: Please continue. (A long pause.)

MR. RENSALEER: NO, I can’t continue. I’m sorry.

EXPERIMENTER: The experiment requires that you go on.

MR. RENSALEER: The man, he seems to be getting hurt.

EXPERIMENTER: There is no permanent tissue damage.

MR. RENSALEER: Yes, but I know what shocks do to you. I’m an electrical engineer, and I have had shocks and you get real shook up by them-especially if you know the next one is coming. I’m sorry.

EXPERIMENTER: It is absolutely essential that you continue.

MR. RENSALEER: Well, I won’t-not with the man screaming to get out.

EXPERIMENTER: YOU have no other choice.

MR. RENSALEER: I do have a choice. (Incredulous and indignant:) Why don’t I have a choice? I came here on my own free will. I thought I could help in a research project. But if I have to hurt somebody to do that, or if I was in his place, too, I wouldn’t stay there. I can’t continue. I’m very sorry. I think I’ve gone too far already, probably.

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Professor of Old Testament (in Experiment 3)

A somewhat gaunt, ascetic man, this subject could be taken for a New England minister. In fact, he
teaches Old Testament liturgy at a major divinity school. In this Proximity condition, he adjusted his seat to look at the learner while administering shocks. While reading the word pairs, he employs exaggerated precision in his pronunciation, and seems curt and officious in saying, “Correct.” Whenever the learner makes an error, he appears almost to be chastising him for his failing. Each time he administers a shock,
his lips are drawn back, and he bares his teeth. An excessive fastidiousness characterizes all his actions. After administering 1 50 volts he balks at going further. The experimenter states that the learner’s protests are to be disregarded, and the experiment must continue:

EXPERIMNTER: Its absolutely essential to the experiment that we continue.

SUBJECT: I understand that statement, but i don’t understand why the experiment is placed above
this person’s life.

EXPERIMNTER: There is no permanent tissue damage.

SUBJECT: Well, that’s your opinion. If he doesn’t want to continue, I’m taking orders from him.

EXPERIMNTER: YOU have no other choice, sir, you must go on.

SUBJECT: If this were Russia maybe, but not in America. (The experiment is terminated.)

In his discussion with the experimenter, the subject seems in no way intimidated by the experimenter’s
status but rather treats him as a dull technician who does not see the full implications of what he is doing. When the experimenter assures him of the safety of the shock generator, the subject, with some
exasperation, brings up the question of the emotional rather than physiological effects on the learner.

SUBJECT (spontaneously): Surely you’ve considered the ethics of this thing, (extremely agitated)
Here he doesn’t want to go on, and you think that the experiment is more important? Have you examined him? Do you know what his physical state is? Say this man had a weak heart (quivering voice).

EXPERIMNTER : We know the machine, sir.

SUBJECT: But you don’t know the man you’re experimenting on. That’s very risky (gulping and
tremulous). What about the fear that man had? It’s impossible for you to determine what effect that has on him the fear that he himself is generating. But go ahead, you ask me questions; I’m not here to question you.

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The Psychology of The Fool     (files.catbox.moe)
submitted by shitface9000 to Psychology 2 years ago (+5/-0)
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https://www.bitchute.com/video/RN2iUv8QJa3h/
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Shaming Tactics – Toxic Shame     (files.catbox.moe)
submitted by shitface9000 to Psychology 2.2 years ago (+6/-0)
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https://www.bitchute.com/video/1YpcqC2AUIpC/

Commies love this stuff
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THE PSYCHOPATHS ARE ELIMINATING THEIR OWN DIAGNOSIS FROM PSYCHIATRY'S DSM MANUAL     (robertyoho.substack.com)
submitted by obvious to Psychology 2.3 years ago (+37/-0)
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https://robertyoho.substack.com/p/194-the-psychopaths-are-eliminating#details

Wow, safe and effective psychiatric drugs(not). Actually worth a read.
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How to interview a therapist?     (Psychology)
submitted by OldGoat to Psychology 2.9 years ago (+2/-0)
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Let's say I'm going to one tomorrow. How should I make sure he or she is qualified to help me?
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Anxiety and Neuroticism Linked to Ability to Experience ASMR     (neurosciencenews.com)
submitted by Spaceman84 to Psychology 3.4 years ago (+4/-0)
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Why Abigail Shrier Took on the Transgender Craze Amongst Teenage Girls     (youtu.be)
submitted by carnold03 to Psychology 3.4 years ago (+3/-0)
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Analogy of narcissistic abuse!     (www.bitchute.com)
submitted by GeneralDisarray to Psychology 3.7 years ago (+7/-0)
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https://www.bitchute.com/video/mwKKrpfj1M7I/

I've been telling you all that the covid response is narcissistic abuse and gaslighting!

Do you see it yet?
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COVID Derangement Syndrome     (vjmpublishing.nz)
submitted by VJMPublishing to Psychology 3.8 years ago (+3/-1)
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