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Why do guys let their gf cheat on them or pull unlimited amounts of stupid shit and always take them back?

submitted by anon to askanon 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 15:31:23 ago (+8/-0)     (askanon)

Thinking back, the gfs I've had think they can get away with anything and just cannot accept that I don't want them back, and no matter how much I hold out they will never self-correct. Then when I've finally had it and I'm done completely done they come running back. I'm always surprised by this because I'm legit done and they can fuck off.

When I see people in relationships I wonder how much of this dumb shit has happened that they're just pretending didn't happen. The real story is always something I would never accept in my own life. Why can't people just act right?

God, I don't use social media but I can only imagine the shit storm of millennial women approaching middle age "ready to settle down". Disgusting. I want no part of that shit.

I think these regretful millennial women are the driving force for this sexual degeneracy and pedophilia; if EVERYONE EVERYWHERE is fucked up, then they can "win" their unwinnable situation. Typical female move to damage everyone else's situation rather than improve their own, except that here they can't improve - the damage is permanent, hence the willingness to sell their kids into the sex trade and push the homo agenda.

Thank Jews.


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[ - ] deleted 5 points 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 15:36:33 ago (+5/-0)

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[ - ] anon 4231599 [op] 0 points 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 16:31:19 ago (+1/-1)

What world do you live in that you don't think I have access to the internet? Why would I have an exclusive sample size consisting of people only in meatspace?

Baby boomers and gen z people who are morphing into boomers say this. Especially in the past 2 years. Where did this phrasing come from?

[ - ] anon 2713166 0 points 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 17:07:52 ago (+0/-0)

lol, yes they will

[ - ] anon 1245151 4 points 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 16:54:33 ago (+4/-0)

There are plenty of women who put up with alcoholic losers and drug dealers as well

[ - ] Her0n 2 points 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 18:33:51 ago (+2/-0)

Physical and emotional abuse too

[ - ] anon 1984816 3 points 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 15:45:16 ago (+3/-0)

if they fuck you over once they'll do it again and again

[ - ] anon 4231599 [op] 0 points 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 16:27:25 ago (+0/-0)

Well, I'm not going to sit there and pretend to be walking away just to get her to fix her behavior and if I were already seeing multiple women at once I definitely don't care about any one of those women in particular since they're all stupid enough to be with me while I'm seeing other women.

[ - ] Her0n 2 points 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 18:35:22 ago (+2/-0)

Scarcity mentality.

[ - ] anon 4231599 [op] 0 points 2.3 yearsJan 27, 2023 18:52:01 ago (+0/-0)

I think there is something additional going on

[ - ] anon 4453477 1 point 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 18:22:09 ago (+1/-0)

I've been through this a few times. I know better now (I hope) but when I was younger I didn't know how to spot red flags and I couldn't tell the difference between bad behavior coming from them vs a response to something I was doing wrong vs stuff that's just normal that I didn't like. In most cases I was just trying to be a good person. And I really didn't want to hurt them so playing sad worked extremely well with me.

Id talk to family and friends when things weren't going well and I'd get a listening ear and some sympathetic words but nobody broke it down for me or gave me any hints on how I should figure out what to do. I made some really bad decisions and my parents wouldn't even blink. I can remember once or twice someone I didn't know very well trying to clue me in with a comment or two but since the people I trusted never said stuff like that I assumed they were meddling or just trying to fuck with me.

The more I realize about this the angrier and more resentful it makes me. Not at women, they're not even that confusing once you know what to do but I'm so blackpilled none of it feels right.

[ - ] anon 3898576 0 points 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 23:18:03 ago (+0/-0)

I'm always surprised by this because I'm legit done and they can fuck off.

The only true response.

[ - ] anon 4231599 [op] 1 point 2.3 yearsJan 27, 2023 18:12:33 ago (+1/-0)

Why is their predisposition such that they want to "fix everything" after I'm gone? I don't think it's merely wanting what they can't have.

[ - ] anon 1679286 0 points 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 18:11:19 ago (+0/-0)

To collect all the STDs

[ - ] anon 2543066 0 points 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 17:54:32 ago (+0/-0)

Define dumbshit, kinda vague.

[ - ] anon 2311469 0 points 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 17:44:27 ago (+0/-0)

They are most comfortable with another prostitute that doesn't make their degeneracy stick out by contrast. It's also nice to have a long list of excuses upfront on "why it just didn't work out"... So if it looks like the relationship is destined to end by its very nature, that's the dish they want... Zero accountability if you set it all up ahead of time to self destruct.

Making up involves massive expenditures of cash and inspired sex. Chicks dig cash and a good fuck.

Slowly you start to see how the reptilian prostitute mind assesses the value of it's "relationships".

Set up so they spit out as much cash and good sex in as short a time as possible all the while having a goldmine of material to choose from as to how it is her that is oppressed so any shit she pulls is justified.

It's a blank check to run around like a crazy bitch in heat 24/7/365.

[ - ] anon 3033781 -1 points 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 16:17:31 ago (+0/-1)

That's just point of view. I see women taking cheating men back more. Men committing the sin of suicide and spitting at God because she wouldn't take him back is seen too much. Maybe because he put her where God should be.

[ - ] anon 9347857 1 point 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 17:14:39 ago (+1/-0)

Men and women have completely different checklists for what they want in a partner. Men straight up don't care about a woman's social status, career, education, or money. Women absolutely care for those things in a man. Men give a shit about disloyalty in women (aka being a slut who fucks everybody), because most men aren't down to raise another man's fucking kid and they also don't want to build a life with a woman who doesn't appreciate his efforts by going out and fucking other men.

Women on the other hand, are extremely competitive with other women, over the 'resource' of men--- particularly men with a perceived (or actual) high status. A man who can regularly pull women (and/or cheat) is considered to be 'high value' among women-- otherwise all the other bitches wouldn't be after him, full stop. Women would rather be with a high value man who cheats, or otherwise be entirely alone, rather than be with a low value man (in her mind or the mind's of other women). That's it. There's literally nothing else to the story. If you want to test this shit yourself, if your decently attractive/fit, tell some single women that you're recently single-- just broke up-- see how they react. Then go find some other single women and tell them you've never had a girlfriend or you haven't been with a woman in years-- see how they react. They'll run from your ass because if other women aren't chasing you-- you aren't worth the time in their book.

Internet and social media has turned this problem into a full-blown catastrophe at this point. Everyone was previously relegated to their immediate locales. AKA you only dated in your immediate county, town, or city-- everyone outside of those may have well not existed. So proportionally, there were way less high value men available at women's fingertips (and where the ponds are dry, a 6 can be a 10 every day of the week)--- but they had to make due with what was in their area, whoever they could physically run into and meet on the average day. Not anymore. With Tinder/et al, the average woman can hit up four fucking states worth of high value males who all will be happy to dick her. Whether she can keep them long-term or not is a different story, but doesn't matter-- getting dicked by 'hot guys'.

If you really want to fuck your head up, actual legitimate murderers and serial killers are seen as higher value by most women than any regular man ever will be. As long as he doesn't come after her (per the rules in her mind), she'll ride his dick raw every hour on the hour.

-Xantha

[ - ] anon 2543066 0 points 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 18:02:27 ago (+0/-0)

No care for social status, but the other 3 are important to me. You want to hang with an idiot that can only perform simple tasks you can do yourself, and then pay for that?

[ - ] deleted 0 points 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 16:25:38 ago (+0/-0)

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[ - ] anon 4231599 [op] -1 points 2.3 yearsJan 26, 2023 16:46:53 ago (+0/-1)

I think the idea is that no one wants to deal with having been dealt that hand. It becomes apparent that there isn't even anything he wants to get in life, there is no working toward a goal; people continuously refuse to accept that women achieve such a level of undesirability that men nope out of life. To say this another way, women's actions are not some sort of godly blessing no matter what they do, and there should be consequences for their actions up to and including death. Don't like it? Then deal with the fact that men don't want to participate in that nonsense - a banged up woman is worth nothing, or less than nothing, to some men.