In my 20s I was an amateur boxer. Was trained by a former army boxing champion and he had me do really basic drills like the balance beam and ring movement for the first 6 months without even hitting the bag. That's just what they did back in those days, build a technical boxer before you get to punch. It was kind of frustrating but honestly was very useful because I didn't trip over myself awkwardly like a lot of other heavyweights at the time did.
Anyhow being a tall athletic muscular heavyweight who could move well, I could not find sparring partners where I was living. Everyone in that area who boxed were Italian or Hispanic so they were all 5'10 and under. Heavyweights who were at my beginning level were all shorter fat guys who lived to eat. They refused to spar.
That being said my coach did finally find a few people who were game. Only problem is, they were all professional fighters. One guy for example was literally a UFC heavyweight fighter known for knockout power and another guy was a regional contender who competed across several states in boxing.
Needless to say while I never got knocked out or seriously fucked up, they kicked my ass. I hated sparring the first 6 sessions. Was basically learning how to block and take a hit. They couldn't get me to quit with head strikes so they learned to go to the body.
Eventually though, I learned it's a simple matter to counter guys who get excited and start winging punches. The jab keeps them from coming in. Started putting them on the ropes by slipping and throwing a straight right with my better reach.
The skills I learned eventually got me to the golden gloves championship which I won by decision. Not an impressive title in my state by any means but it was a good accomplishment.
Decided not to pursue boxing professionally because I saw how the gym owners son who was a former pro was kinda permanently punch drunk from his time as a contender.
Still it was a great lesson in persistence and those lessons of taking a beating and learning from it stuck with me and helped me later in life.
My name is on the HW Golden gloves state register. I mean it's vague but some people have no life and might be able to go through my post history to find me.
I'm the same way. I took jiu jitsu, kick boxing, judo, boxing classes on and off for like 5 years in my late twenties. It toughened me up on so many ways, show my limitations, taught me the value in hard work and dedication. I was working all the time and partying so I never really progressed, I put it on the back burner until a few weeks ago. I'm rolling with kids 15 years younger, they wear me out but I know my way around a scramble and am calloused enough to put up a fight.
Take from all this what you will, but I'm glad I started years ago. I'm a better person because of it.
While I did learn boxing, as a young man I got into a lot of fights. Something about being the new guy, tall, and intellectual lead to bullies targeting me or my friends often.
Thing is, I was much better than any random bully, even the ones who supposedly did martial arts. One very important thing I learned from those fights was to act cool under violent pressure.
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Take from all this what you will, but I'm glad I started years ago. I'm a better person because of it.
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Thing is, I was much better than any random bully, even the ones who supposedly did martial arts. One very important thing I learned from those fights was to act cool under violent pressure.
It's done me well in life for sure.
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