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How do you deal with family members who talk about you behind your back? Overhead a convo me they were having on the phone

submitted by anon to askanon 2 yearsApr 14, 2023 21:52:31 ago (+3/-0)     (askanon)



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[ - ] anon 1011757 4 points 2 yearsApr 14, 2023 21:53:34 ago (+4/-0)

stop caring

stop sharing information about yourself with them

[ - ] anon 2238539 [op] 0 points 2 yearsApr 14, 2023 21:54:21 ago (+1/-1)

Its tough being stotic isn't easy for me. I keep convos to a minimum and avoid them altogether whenever possible. Also just keep it civil if I have to engage

[ - ] anon 1011757 2 points 2 yearsApr 14, 2023 21:56:45 ago (+2/-0)

yeah at that point just realize that you don’t choose your family, they can be fuckin assholes just like anyone else.

[ - ] deleted 0 points 2 yearsApr 15, 2023 04:21:10 ago (+0/-0)

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[ - ] deleted 2 points 2 yearsApr 14, 2023 22:02:10 ago (+4/-2)

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[ - ] anon 3554826 1 point 2 yearsApr 15, 2023 01:10:35 ago (+1/-0)

Yep. Family that turns on you for whatever stupid reason, isn't your family anymore. I had a huge, very tight nit family. 12 uncles and aunts, about 70 cousins. Grandparents got sick, and the family split pretty much down the middle fighting for the inheritance. Blood literally doesn't mean shit to anyone apparently.

[ - ] anon 3343619 2 points 2 yearsApr 14, 2023 21:59:41 ago (+2/-0)

Just ignore it.

[ - ] anon 1397521 0 points 2 yearsApr 15, 2023 07:02:03 ago (+0/-0)

Let them know you know, then never speak to them again.

[ - ] deleted 0 points 2 yearsApr 14, 2023 22:14:19 ago (+0/-0)

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[ - ] anon 2238539 [op] 1 point 2 yearsApr 14, 2023 22:46:03 ago (+1/-0)

Apparently my aunt telling my mother and sister say something about me being embarrassed going to there home and how apparently no one loves me. This all escalated because I didn't prepare my own dinner plate being a guest in their home. Keep in mind I go there once in a blue moon.

[ - ] deleted 1 point 2 yearsApr 14, 2023 22:51:16 ago (+1/-0)

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[ - ] anon 2238539 [op] 1 point 2 yearsApr 14, 2023 23:17:25 ago (+1/-0)

She said im old enough to do it on my own. Imagine making a big stink out of nothing. Fucking dyke bitch just needs something to bitch and complain about. I try to avoid and minimize all contact on that side the family for years and the one time I go this happens. And yes its a lefty.

[ - ] anon 5035280 1 point 2 yearsApr 15, 2023 03:17:03 ago (+1/-0)

These things are often just blessings where what might have been a hard decision becomes easy. Cut them out of your life, only net gain having less vampires in your life. You're young and life just gets better if you stay strong.

[ - ] anon 1678912 1 point 2 yearsApr 15, 2023 08:26:23 ago (+1/-0)

She failed. As the hostess it was her job to let you know you could serve your own plate and if she noticed that you were uncomfortable served you a plate. Your family wasn't raised right. You should let them know that before you follow the advice from everybody here. Shame is a powerful tool.


[ - ] anon 1044402 0 points 2 yearsApr 15, 2023 04:29:58 ago (+0/-0)

Try hitting her.

[ - ] Master_Foo -3 points 2 yearsApr 14, 2023 21:56:55 ago (+0/-3)

[ - ] anon 1678912 0 points 2 yearsApr 15, 2023 08:34:58 ago (+0/-0)

Well if they weren't talking before that'll get 'em going

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C9_gs0BKCqI