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You didn't.

It has nothing to do with being a prude. I used to be addicted to porn. That enjoyment doesn't go away just because you will against indulging it any longer. I love the female body. Porn is tremendously easy. It's right there at the click of a mouse. There are things which are good but which become distorted in terms of motivations, access, and lack of virtue. Do you think it's cool to share how much these women get you off? Does it arouse you to assert your sexuality in front of other people? I get it. Being recognized as a sexual creature, a carnal creature, in terms of your desires, can itself be a desirable thing. It feels good to roll in the shit and to just give in to your animal nature. It can even arouse others, women especially, to hear a man express this side of himself.

But as men, we need to be in control. Satisfying our desires can quickly become vicious without control.

You try to mask your sin by making it appear virtuous. My word! You're ringing the bell of white beauty! You're making men appreciate her! And doesn't she want that, too!? Is she not paid for it, even? Well, look at that, it's a regular win-win.

You'd make a fine devil, Joe, and I suppose that's something you relish even. But even his attractiveness is fleeting and superficial. It's the type of thing that gives way quickly to the appearance of exactly what he is in reality, weak, juvenile, impulsive, and cowardly. And men will find these qualities in the pornographic experience, reliably. A man need not work or sacrifice or display any worthwhile qualities to earn the woman in porn. She isn't real. She only appears that way. He sits behind a fucking computer screen and just observes, like a cuckold. It's regression to childhood, a movement away from being a mature male. It's weakness and submission to things we can't control, and the crippling of our ability to exert self-control. This behavior is the antithesis of strong masculinity in the long run. Like the libertine rakes and playboys, it has an allure for just a minute, before giving way to an ugly reality. Just vapors.

No, I'm no prude. I just realized that man should pursue the things in the world that bring him in contact with real women, and he should fuck the woman he loves, and make children. He should not indulge his inner boy with a veritable buffet of falsehoods while he cranks his dick all by himself, like some lowly animal, a chimp rubbing itself compulsively, or a rat with a dopamine drip in its cage.

Let me ask you a question. Do you think family is important? Are children important? If you had a daughter, is there any possibility that, if you loved her genuinely, you could want a life for her in the porn industry? To be treated like meat for strangers to gawk at and masturbate over? To be livestock for a perverse industry? No, there is no loving parent who can want this for their child.

But the girls in these vids. . .they are someone's child. They aren't just something to cum to. That's a result of the illusion, the myopia your sin creates. The perversion permits you to see things that way, through the rosy and self-indulgent veneer, the very veneer that always breaks due its superficiality. No, that's a person in the video. That's someone's daughter. I already know what you'll say, but I simply don't give a shit anymore.

To love someone is not simply to appreciate them materially. To love someone is to will the good for them, not just your own good deriving from their instrumentality. There's nothing wrong with having carnal desire, or wanting to fuck a woman so bad it hurts. But men are the control element of a society. It's up to us to marshal our desires and our strength, to resist the animal in us for something higher. You should absolutely want to fuck a woman until she has come to the brink of crying from ecstasy. But that woman should be your wife, and it should be that good because it is something you both mutually reserve for each other.

Being a watcher is pathetic, and that's not just an insult I throw around for lack of a better term. It is pathetic by its very nature.

LOL from the link, "Unfortunately nude scenes like this one prove once again that Jennifer Lawrence is a sickeningly salacious slut, and that she is still unrepentant for her egregious crimes against morality."