My best friend died. He was one of the last people on Earth in my circle and that I trusted. Last time I seen him he was fine, then the next day he woke up and said his joints were hurting bad and he couldn't get out of bed so his wife thought he had the flu and let him sleep in. She checked on him a couple hours later and he wouldn't wake up so she called the bamberlamps. They took him to the hospital and they said he had a bad infection (sepsis) and slipped into a coma so they sent him by heli to a major hospital. They immediately put him on life support. They said the infection was attacking all of his organs.
After 4 days they told his wife to make end of life plans and that he wouldn't survive. He had sepsis and they couldn't get any antibiotics to work. He remained in a coma for 34 days and then he woke up. Entropy had set in and his mind wasn't working right to the point that I thought he had brain damage. It was hard standing by his bed seeing that. I asked him if he knew who I was and he said "yes, you're my brother". So then they transferred him to a different hospital/rehab place I guess to keep him comfortable until he died. 5 days after arriving at this place they took out his trach and he could whisper. He remembered us and everything but it was like he had a brain injury. A few days later he seemed to be getting better and we started getting our hopes up. He wanted to sit up and was talking more and could finally move his hands and hold water to drink it. I felt good leaving there that day thinking that maybe he was gonna pull through.
The very next day his wife said he woke up and had a very clear mind and seemed almost normal for most of the day. Then that evening he coded three times and passed away. He was 51. I can't even process it. My best friend isn't on this planet anymore. I'll miss talking to him on the phone and hearing him berate Biden and leftists. He hated them with a passion. He was one of the good ones. The town methhead is healthy, though. That MF'r will probably live to be 100.
My best friend dropped dead of a brain aneurysm a few years ago. Just dead. It hurt for about a year. Still does just not as much. It's hard man. I eventually got a dog and she's my best friend. Maybe this sounds dumb or won't help you out. There's a future after the pain. Hang in there man.
His friend didn't kill himself and the OP expressed no suicidal ideation. Hang in there is an apt expression for somepne struggling with their world falling apart. So how about you fuck off for telling me how to behave.
i had sepsis and it was no fun at all. the good thing is that i got being rushed to the ER because i was disoriented and coughing with a high fever to boot.
they gave me oxygen and a batch of strong antibiotics right from the start which was critical because the sepsis was starting to damage my lungs and kidneys.
i was lucky and blessed that i got it controlled in time. it took me 2 weeks for my blood to go back to normal. that was also the time in which i was on strong antibiotics that i was given post discharge.
4 years later my mother also got sepsis because of a kidney stone.she almost didnt make it. she was out cold. today she doesnt remember much about her ordeal at her hospital just that she heard some nurses say that she wouldnt make it. it was that bad.
yeah bro sepsis is no joke
if you have high fever, chills, disorientation ,extremely low pressure then its time to rush to the ER in a hurry
Sepsis is a bloodborne infection that can happen by many means. Don't fuck around w punctures. Don't fuck around with fever. And if you have an infection of any kind, take antibiotics of the best variety immediately.
you answer him before i did. its not a disease that is contracted is an infection that sits in your bloodstream without being treated. the more it sits there the more a strong immune response your body will do to try to squash it and that response can be fatal.
the infection plus the immune response is what causes sepsis
I'm sorry for your loss, there's nothing much I can say. Grieve for him, and don't let his memory waste away. Make him proud of you and the life you will continue to live, such that one day should you meet again, you can do so with honor.
do you believe that a person stays on this plane after death? just curious
at any rate, there are times which the patient will do a recovery just to say goodbye in a way and that's what happened this goat's friend. a chance was given to say goodbye and he did in his own way
I'm sorry for your loss. That poor widow must be traumatized from this experience. Life is hard, but death sucks. Real Goats never die, they go headbutt with Jesus in the sky.
It's very tough to lose a best friend. The key thing is to not let yourself think you can't make another of equal value and comraderie. If you look you will find.
If you shut down and imagine you can't you won't and your life will be worse.
There are many people of good nature and wisdom in the world who will be friend you if you befriend them.
And a long history together is not essential to form that bond.
"something-weird-happened-they-thought-it-was-a-flu-then-they-died-horrifically"-posting as the ramp up to more fake covid lockdowns happens at the same time?
No. The hospital nor anyone else said it was covid. His wife thought he had the regular flu or something but it wasn't. It was just a raging infection that hit him. He'd never been vax'd or anything.
We will all lose many more along the way. No know said its would be easy. Keep your chin up. Immerse yourself in passion. The one thing you shouldn't do is linger on it and let it bring you down for years. Grieve him, and continue on living, now knowing how fortunate you are to have more time, if only one more day.
So sorry about your friend anon. How did he get sepsis in the first place? Medical care is shit.
Nothing I can really say. I see white people dying and being killed everyday and no one seems to care. I care very much for my white brothers and sisters and it always hurts to hear these stories. RIP to your buddy, lost too soon.
I hope they find some answers for his family’s sake. I would want to know. If they fuckd up the treatment she can sue their asses. They should pay attenion to the autopsy and have a second opinion from another pathologist and talk to a lawyer. Sorry to bring up the unpleasant stuff at this moment, but they should cover their bases.
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[ - ] anon 4005664 -9 points 1.8 yearsAug 20, 2023 01:04:20 ago (+0/-9)
i think a better choice should have been use in this instance. God forbid that you gave him an idea to join his friend.
on another note, why arent you anon?
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[ - ] anon 4005664 5 points 1.8 yearsAug 19, 2023 22:35:09 ago (+5/-0)
they gave me oxygen and a batch of strong antibiotics right from the start which was critical because the sepsis was starting to damage my lungs and kidneys.
i was lucky and blessed that i got it controlled in time. it took me 2 weeks for my blood to go back to normal. that was also the time in which i was on strong antibiotics that i was given post discharge.
4 years later my mother also got sepsis because of a kidney stone.she almost didnt make it. she was out cold. today she doesnt remember much about her ordeal at her hospital just that she heard some nurses say that she wouldnt make it. it was that bad.
yeah bro sepsis is no joke
if you have high fever, chills, disorientation ,extremely low pressure then its time to rush to the ER in a hurry
sorry for your loss btw
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[ - ] anon 4005664 0 points 1.8 yearsAug 20, 2023 09:17:13 ago (+0/-0)
the infection plus the immune response is what causes sepsis
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[ - ] anon 4005664 2 points 1.8 yearsAug 19, 2023 22:38:36 ago (+2/-0)
do you believe that a person stays on this plane after death? just curious
at any rate, there are times which the patient will do a recovery just to say goodbye in a way and that's what happened this goat's friend. a chance was given to say goodbye and he did in his own way
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[ - ] ItsOk2bArian 3 points 1.8 yearsAug 20, 2023 05:16:05 ago (+3/-0)
That poor widow must be traumatized from this experience.
Life is hard, but death sucks.
Real Goats never die, they go headbutt with Jesus in the sky.
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The key thing is to not let yourself think you can't make another of equal value and comraderie. If you look you will find.
If you shut down and imagine you can't you won't and your life will be worse.
There are many people of good nature and wisdom in the world who will be friend you if you befriend them.
And a long history together is not essential to form that bond.
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cool story bro.
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[ - ] anon 3620960 0 points 1.8 yearsAug 20, 2023 07:53:30 ago (+0/-0)
The one thing you shouldn't do is linger on it and let it bring you down for years.
Grieve him, and continue on living, now knowing how fortunate you are to have more time, if only one more day.
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[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 1.8 yearsAug 20, 2023 08:28:44 ago (+0/-0)
Nothing I can really say. I see white people dying and being killed everyday and no one seems to care. I care very much for my white brothers and sisters and it always hurts to hear these stories. RIP to your buddy, lost too soon.
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If it did happen, my best bet is the Bill Gates GMOsquitoes got him.