Been sober since the 18th. Felt a lot better recently. In particular, I've had a lot more mental clarity and focus to the point where my fiancée and family have noticed a change. Some of them, especially my brother, resent me for a lot of things I did while I drank heavily. I don't blame them at all; in retrospect, I was absolutely unhinged while I was drinking like that. It needed to stop, and I'm glad I have.
I've been to a couple of AA meetings, and I have mixed thoughts on them. On the one hand, I met an older guy who has been sober for over 44 years. That worked for him, and if that's what it took, good on him. I feel out of place at those meetings, almost like I'm going through the motions without complete dedication toward what they accomplish. Sure, I want to have more control over myself - and it seems it's working - but there's a certain kind of mindset at those meetings I have a hard time accepting.
Admitting that I'm powerless over alcohol is the main hurdle for me. To me, I should work toward mastery over all things that would harm myself or others, and work to achieve a balance with them. Admitting complete defeat is foreign to me, but I could also be unreasonably stubborn in this regard. It wouldn't be the first time that's been the case in my life.
Not sure how to keep going from here. Anyone have experience with AA or recovering from alcohol abuse? I could use some advice.
Some people swear by AA, others not so much. Do whatever works for you.
There is not a single good thing about alcohol. Even at it's most benign it can do nothing of value for you while the potential for hurt and harm is always just around the corner and virtually bottomless.
You've already recognized the harm you were doing to your loved ones. If that's not reason enough to stay sober then buddy I can't think of a better one.
I'm coming on 6 months. I'm sorry but I have no advice for staying sober. Why I could stop cold after more than 20 years of drinking myself stupid almost every night is a complete mystery to me. All I can say is this is the first time I've felt any sort of peace in my life for as long as I can remember.
I wish you all the best. As the saying goes it's one day at a time. And then some day you'll look back and you're the guy who's 44 years sober.
Thanks for your comment. Appreciate the well wishes, and good luck on your continued sobriety. This is what I needed to read, even if I didn't know it.
I am on 2 years from a 30 pack a night and smoking a pack a day for nearly 20 years. I know I didn't stop soon enough, I know I have fucked my long term life over, and that is a thing I take responsibility for. I just quit pot, so that's a thing. Woke up face down after a black out on live tracks (train) in town after accepting a family member into my household to care for. Took a hard look at myself, at what those other realities would be - her, homeless and broken, me, dead. Every time that train passes by I get that reminder. Some people need God, some people need that one big fuck up. My advice, go the God route cuz the fuck up route is not the way to go my guy.
But in seriousness, I really gotta cut back some myself. It has been rather chilly out, which of course means I've gotten back into the whiskey. I need to really not do that too much - it's a whole 'nother level of drunkness.
But you internet retards are EXTRA funny with the help of whiskey, so it's tough!
Unfortunately I can exactly see what you’re saying, I have no idea what to say to you. We are both on this same sinking ship. Maybe we can end up on the same life raft?
Good job. Keep up the good work! It takes time to cleanse your body of that poison. I'm close to 6 months dry. Never had so much clarity before. The biggest fear is relapse. A trigger of some kind comes out of blue and sends me to the first drink and were off to the races. That's where AA helps to avoid that pitfall, in other words "don't rest on your laurels". Always be diligent. Best of luck.
I want to be you! But you have to realize there have been a lot of you. The struggle is real. I’m going to tell you two things that will save your life, one:
Can I interest you in some audiophile quality Wahldorf speakers? Normally go for $2,000 but I'll let them go for $250 a piece because of an inventory issue. I can have the van meet you in five minutes.
My sister tried AA, didn't care for the heavy Christian side of it, then tried NA instead. Not only did that work for her, but she's gone on to counsel many others with all sorts of addictions. It has become her life's work, helping others helps her, and I'm happy for that.
I quit by spending an all nighter deep diving my medical lab reports from my previous stay in the hospital. I looked up every word I didn't understand, chased many rabbits down side holes trying to grasp what was wrong with me. By the time the sun came up, it was clear that I had been systematically poisoning myself for decades, and I quit right then, full stop. I haven't touched a drop since that night, and would probably get nauseated if I did. My mind recovered faster than anything. Even with all the bullshit going on in the world right now, I'm not angry all the time like I used to be. My body is coming along a bit slower, I damaged it pretty good, but it's getting there. There's no way I can ever go back.
Hey man, I don't have any advice, but I do wish you well on the path, and to let you know that you have support and are looked positively on by others. Keep up the dedication and forward movement.
I spent about a year in and out about twenty years ago and it seemed to me the ones there that it worked for traded one addiction for another, AA. I knew going in and listening that I didn't have the time to make that kind of commitment. Everyone said one day at a time but all I heard was "NEVER DRINK AGAIN" which didn't work for my career choice. So I got addicted to my work which I liked far better than booze. Twenty two years later I have maybe 3-4 drinks a year on a heavy year. Usually 1-2 though.
I've been sober from alcohol for 4 years. I tried AA but never got very far.
A doctor once told me the definition of alcoholic is you can't control your drinking. Which isn't fantastically different from what AA is saying about powerlessness. But my point is, I found that clearly I can control my drinking. After quitting the first time and getting my head clear, I didn't drink for a good long time, so QED.
I never felt it's "one day at a time" either. The times I have used alcohol again were at the end of long slides. A better attitude would have been to maintain even keel and use some alternative stress management strategies before it got to the point where alcohol seemed like the only possible way to feel good.
At the same time, isolation leads to drug use, so I do think that getting some kind of support is key. Church groups, if you go. Maybe one of the alternative sobriety groups that's not AA. My point is you could do worse than to go to the AA meetings, make some friends, and nod your way through without seriously participating. What I missed out on is the actual personal development. The non-drinking has been fine.
Also don't agree with the powerless cult. As if you have no control over your hand raising alcohol to your mouth? If you don't you're in trouble, but all you have to do is literally not swallow alcohol.
That will be easier if you don't have it within reach in the first place. Don't buy it, don't hang out with people who'll give it to you.
Maybe you could write a "I don't drink alcohol because..." note where you list the reasons you want to remain sober. Sounds like you have some good ones, especially around family and fiancée. Review those regularly or on occasion so the alcohol can't sneak back in.
“Powerless over alcohol” simply means that you biologically turn more retarded (which everybody does, you fool!), so don’t let a simple idea get bent up over this group. You should probably be more worried about the disgusting jew kikes that REALLY want to be your sponsor (have you kneel before them while they talk about gay faggy shit). Don’t drink that koolaid, son!
It very well may have been my struggle with alcohol that primed me to admit that I didn't know all the answers, and the answers I knew I couldn't know unless I was trusting in/on something; So I turned from trusting the world and myself toward God, to trust in Him and to ask Him for the truth and for guidance and I believed on his word, the Lord Jesus and was born again.
I am powerless over alcohol, which is why I can no longer imbibe.
I hope for you the best, to never turn back to drinking. Congrats!
Exactly, you had to quit using. That's what we call getting on the wagon. The only way to have victory over it is to never touch it, because as soon as you have one, you want another and another and another.
That is the exact kind of powerlessness I'm talking about.
Nonsense. I have the occasional beer with a neighbor, and stop after 1-2. Many others do the same. I never stopped liking the effect of alcohol, I just hate the morning after a drunk. I am NOT 'powerless', neither are you. Low IQ people with low impulse control (niggers etc) tend to keep going, even though they know they will regret it.
Then they are not REALLY tired of it. When something irritates you enough, you will drop it. I've done it all, and left it all behind...because I got TIRED of it. Millions of others have done the same.
AA is a cult of whiny crybabies. You are not 'powerless' over alcohol, as you are proving by staying sober. We all make hundreds of decisions everyday. You DECIDE to drink. Just...don't drink.---former boozer and user
This may work for a while, but I really mean unironically that you have to develop a disgust for drinking, and others that drink. Look into alcohol, who pushes and produces it. You'll be sickened at the plot at large. When you heard yourself saying shit like "Those fucking bastards are laughing at me being a drunk and a bitch!" then you'll be on your way.
You are literally at war. They want to soften you and turn you into a compliant nigger. FUCK THOSE FILTHY BASTARDS!
That's how I quit, I used my ANGER. I hated the stores, the manufacturers, the clerks, the truck drivers, the shareholders, but most of all myself for getting sucked into the slow downward spiral. jews want us weak and addicted.
If you think about what it's actually doing, it is making you sick. I think I liked that because I was always "fine." I could never think of an excuse to relax, but if I drank alcohol, well, it's not wise to do anything important while drunk, so I had permission to be lazy.
My man. Stay strong. Do things to keep the mind active. Carpentry, Construction, Hobbies. Your body will thank you for it. The body treats alcohol as a toxin.
Good for you. I am not necessarily anti-alcohol, but for some people it becomes a problem (rather than an occasional fun time).
Someone very important to me has a drinking problem, to the point that I have had to distance myself from him to avoid his irrational, angry drunken behavior. It's very sad.
I wish more people had your self-awareness. Best of luck to you
Congrats. Has been awhile for me. I hope, in all sincerity, that you find your peace. I stopped doing all intoxicants at the same time, and over time, modified my diet a bit. Have worked out, but have been injured somewhat badly--requiring surgery--as of late. Getting back on the wheel in the near future, but perhaps a little smarter in what I'm doing.
For me, perhaps for you, it was a matter of not wanting to. I never feel like I "have" to not drink...and have corrected my wife when she's talking about it--because language matters. I remember one day, being kinda hung over (I drank far too much almost every night) and was out doing stuff...and I said to myself, I've had enough. Nothing big, no accident or blackout, no major epiphany...just I was done with it at the time.
I personally didn't need to connect with people or have a sponsor before that day or since, never went to AA--but had looked those things up, because quitting was on my mind and I knew I should. I just stopped. Have liquor in the house, there's no pull to drink it or buy more.
I also don't try and tell everyone if I get into social situations that have drinks involved (hell, my wife will, more often that not). Also, she doesn't drink anymore...but that's her choice and we don't swap stories. She never was a drinker, really.
Hope you stay off, stop all the other vices--but really do whatever you choose to. If that's social drinking in the future, that's cool by me. As others have said, we are in control....and there's power in that.
I remember researching AA years ago. It doesn't help. Not statistically anyways. Some folks need to turn themselves over to a higher power. Others, mainly White men, can handle it themselves.
But the rate at which AA works is at the same, or lower, rate than just stopping, or doing your own method.
I've helped family members(women) attend, even held their hand while they went through their first few meetings. So if you think you need it, go for it.
If you don't, then do your own research and come up with a good plan. A few tips is to keep yourself busy, surrounded by people who love you, and to have some ice-cream on standby for if the physical need gets to ya too hard. (The sugar helps, as that's what the alcohol turns into, and ice-cream keeps well and is a big/fast sugar boost)
You are not alone. Plenty of people here and on GAB, and on any other JQ-aware site wants you to be a better you, and will listen/bitch with/at you when you need it.
As someone who was at least a degenerate alcoholic tier. I did an entire year off in 2022. 2023, I drank again and sure it had negative effects, mentally, emotionally and physically BUT never was as bad as before. Just get a year under your belt.
I'm doing 2024 sober. So my plan is even odds even odds.
I'm going through waves personally, I drink heavy, stop for a few days, drink heavy again... but I feel like I'm almost done. It just isn't worth it. Hurt me in some ways, I'd like to think it helped me in others... At the end of the day it just wasn't worth it. I don't wanna waste the time I have left killing myself. I've gone years of my life not drinking, I don't think its going to be too hard for me to quit completely, the hard part is actually wanting it 100%.
I've been sober since Nov 7. Now in outpatient, but I prefer AA meetings (went a few years ago as well), just can't regularly make it... Some days are better than others. I'm not crazy about my situation right now in a sober house, I miss drinking, but I miss the life I had more...
I was sober for the first time in a decade plus and I felt great. It takes a while. Like a few months. Hang in there. You’re gonna get this weird resurgence where you feel fucking fantastic all the time. Like your body is finally firing like it should. I promise it’ll happen. Just don’t start drinking again. In the mean time go to the gym and send me dick pics.
Congratulations! It is a tough journey. But here's what I know that can maybe help. There is a period of around 21 days to 30 days when you first quit anything, including even medications. It's uncomfortable to say the least. Anger, bor3dom, frustration and anxiety its awful. But just know that one mor I g you will wake up and it will be gone. The yucky feelings that are happening daily right now will vanish. Now here's the important advice. It's easy to stay sober, until you have a very bad day. When that happens, your natural addict ways will automatically drive you toward your feel better right now mindset. It's like oh I know exactly how to make this bad day get better. Especially if it's a very very bad day. Bad news, you know. That is what causes relapses. It's because addicts deal with pain and strife and stress with substance. We usually don't k ow any other way to deal. Just make sure when the bad day comes that you remember that you're going to be extra vulnerable and try to find a different way to cope. You'll see what I mean when it comes around. It could ruin anyone even if they're sober for a long time so beware. Be strong. Dealing with life sober is tough when bad days happen. Smooches
Well, congratulations on taking these first steps in reasserting control over yourself and your actions. If there's anything you think we can reasonably do to help you then don't hesitate to ask, I hope that we surprise you in a good way.
[ + ] pickingrinninspittin
[ - ] pickingrinninspittin 13 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 21:18:02 ago (+13/-0)
There is not a single good thing about alcohol. Even at it's most benign it can do nothing of value for you while the potential for hurt and harm is always just around the corner and virtually bottomless.
You've already recognized the harm you were doing to your loved ones. If that's not reason enough to stay sober then buddy I can't think of a better one.
I'm coming on 6 months. I'm sorry but I have no advice for staying sober. Why I could stop cold after more than 20 years of drinking myself stupid almost every night is a complete mystery to me. All I can say is this is the first time I've felt any sort of peace in my life for as long as I can remember.
I wish you all the best. As the saying goes it's one day at a time. And then some day you'll look back and you're the guy who's 44 years sober.
[ + ] Phoenix_Right
[ - ] Phoenix_Right [op] 4 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 21:23:13 ago (+4/-0)
[ + ] Outlaw_Aryan
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[ + ] symbolic
[ - ] symbolic 8 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 21:13:19 ago (+8/-0)
[ + ] lord_nougat
[ - ] lord_nougat 6 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 20:49:44 ago (+6/-0)
But in seriousness, I really gotta cut back some myself. It has been rather chilly out, which of course means I've gotten back into the whiskey. I need to really not do that too much - it's a whole 'nother level of drunkness.
But you internet retards are EXTRA funny with the help of whiskey, so it's tough!
[ + ] Thatguy
[ - ] Thatguy 4 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 21:07:34 ago (+4/-0)
[ + ] lord_nougat
[ - ] lord_nougat 3 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 22:07:25 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] Leveraction
[ - ] Leveraction 3 points 1.3 yearsJan 9, 2024 12:06:26 ago (+3/-0)
Best of luck.
[ + ] Thatguy
[ - ] Thatguy 5 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 20:46:45 ago (+5/-0)
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[ + ] Anus_Expander
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[ + ] thebassdude
[ - ] thebassdude 4 points 1.3 yearsJan 9, 2024 00:22:27 ago (+4/-0)
I quit by spending an all nighter deep diving my medical lab reports from my previous stay in the hospital. I looked up every word I didn't understand, chased many rabbits down side holes trying to grasp what was wrong with me. By the time the sun came up, it was clear that I had been systematically poisoning myself for decades, and I quit right then, full stop. I haven't touched a drop since that night, and would probably get nauseated if I did. My mind recovered faster than anything. Even with all the bullshit going on in the world right now, I'm not angry all the time like I used to be. My body is coming along a bit slower, I damaged it pretty good, but it's getting there. There's no way I can ever go back.
[ + ] mannerbund
[ - ] mannerbund 4 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 22:51:34 ago (+4/-0)
With respect,
mannerbund
[ + ] TheOriginal1Icemonkey
[ - ] TheOriginal1Icemonkey 4 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 22:22:52 ago (+4/-0)
[ + ] Outlaw_Aryan
[ - ] Outlaw_Aryan 3 points 1.3 yearsJan 9, 2024 00:55:37 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] bonghits4jeebus
[ - ] bonghits4jeebus 4 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 22:17:35 ago (+4/-0)
A doctor once told me the definition of alcoholic is you can't control your drinking. Which isn't fantastically different from what AA is saying about powerlessness. But my point is, I found that clearly I can control my drinking. After quitting the first time and getting my head clear, I didn't drink for a good long time, so QED.
I never felt it's "one day at a time" either. The times I have used alcohol again were at the end of long slides. A better attitude would have been to maintain even keel and use some alternative stress management strategies before it got to the point where alcohol seemed like the only possible way to feel good.
At the same time, isolation leads to drug use, so I do think that getting some kind of support is key. Church groups, if you go. Maybe one of the alternative sobriety groups that's not AA. My point is you could do worse than to go to the AA meetings, make some friends, and nod your way through without seriously participating. What I missed out on is the actual personal development. The non-drinking has been fine.
[ + ] Sector2
[ - ] Sector2 4 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 21:53:36 ago (+4/-0)
That will be easier if you don't have it within reach in the first place. Don't buy it, don't hang out with people who'll give it to you.
Maybe you could write a "I don't drink alcohol because..." note where you list the reasons you want to remain sober. Sounds like you have some good ones, especially around family and fiancée. Review those regularly or on occasion so the alcohol can't sneak back in.
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[ + ] SumerBreeze
[ - ] SumerBreeze 4 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 21:29:30 ago (+4/-0)
[ + ] LiberalsAreMental
[ - ] LiberalsAreMental 4 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 21:15:28 ago (+4/-0)
You can stay sober.
Never go back to that garbage.
[ + ] Phoenix_Right
[ - ] Phoenix_Right [op] 2 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 21:26:25 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] Love240
[ - ] Love240 4 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 20:52:25 ago (+4/-0)
I am powerless over alcohol, which is why I can no longer imbibe.
I hope for you the best, to never turn back to drinking. Congrats!
[ + ] Anus_Expander
[ - ] Anus_Expander 4 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 23:53:27 ago (+4/-0)
[ + ] Love240
[ - ] Love240 2 points 1.3 yearsJan 9, 2024 08:57:55 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] Anus_Expander
[ - ] Anus_Expander 2 points 1.3 yearsJan 9, 2024 09:31:04 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] Love240
[ - ] Love240 2 points 1.3 yearsJan 9, 2024 14:20:51 ago (+2/-0)
That is the exact kind of powerlessness I'm talking about.
[ + ] Anus_Expander
[ - ] Anus_Expander 2 points 1.3 yearsJan 9, 2024 17:04:11 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] Love240
[ - ] Love240 2 points 1.3 yearsJan 9, 2024 18:38:25 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] Anus_Expander
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[ + ] Leveraction
[ - ] Leveraction 2 points 1.3 yearsJan 9, 2024 12:49:03 ago (+2/-0)
Anyone can get sober, its STAYING sober.
Most people don't have an alcohol problem, it's a sobriety problem.
Don't wait until you have a shitty day and say screw it, give me a drink.
[ + ] Anus_Expander
[ - ] Anus_Expander 3 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 23:46:46 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] yesiknow
[ - ] yesiknow 3 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 23:27:52 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] Dingo
[ - ] Dingo 3 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 22:16:31 ago (+3/-0)
This may work for a while, but I really mean unironically that you have to develop a disgust for drinking, and others that drink. Look into alcohol, who pushes and produces it. You'll be sickened at the plot at large. When you heard yourself saying shit like "Those fucking bastards are laughing at me being a drunk and a bitch!" then you'll be on your way.
You are literally at war. They want to soften you and turn you into a compliant nigger. FUCK THOSE FILTHY BASTARDS!
Good Luck!
[ + ] Anus_Expander
[ - ] Anus_Expander 5 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 23:51:46 ago (+5/-0)
[ + ] bonghits4jeebus
[ - ] bonghits4jeebus 3 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 22:21:09 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] Dingo
[ - ] Dingo 5 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 22:27:47 ago (+5/-0)
Yes, you're literally pickling your own filtration system (liver) when you drink. It lowers your agency in many ways.
This is interesting, and seemingly true for me in many ways with many things other than just alcohol.
I came to the realization it's war ... and soldiers don't really get to "take a break at the cantina" during war time.
[ + ] letsgetit
[ - ] letsgetit 3 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 22:04:22 ago (+3/-0)
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[ + ] Jiggggg
[ - ] Jiggggg 2 points 1.3 yearsJan 9, 2024 03:25:09 ago (+2/-0)
Someone very important to me has a drinking problem, to the point that I have had to distance myself from him to avoid his irrational, angry drunken behavior. It's very sad.
I wish more people had your self-awareness. Best of luck to you
[ + ] recon_johnny
[ - ] recon_johnny 2 points 1.3 yearsJan 9, 2024 02:00:52 ago (+2/-0)
For me, perhaps for you, it was a matter of not wanting to. I never feel like I "have" to not drink...and have corrected my wife when she's talking about it--because language matters. I remember one day, being kinda hung over (I drank far too much almost every night) and was out doing stuff...and I said to myself, I've had enough. Nothing big, no accident or blackout, no major epiphany...just I was done with it at the time.
I personally didn't need to connect with people or have a sponsor before that day or since, never went to AA--but had looked those things up, because quitting was on my mind and I knew I should. I just stopped. Have liquor in the house, there's no pull to drink it or buy more.
I also don't try and tell everyone if I get into social situations that have drinks involved (hell, my wife will, more often that not). Also, she doesn't drink anymore...but that's her choice and we don't swap stories. She never was a drinker, really.
Hope you stay off, stop all the other vices--but really do whatever you choose to. If that's social drinking in the future, that's cool by me. As others have said, we are in control....and there's power in that.
[ + ] Jenny
[ - ] Jenny 2 points 1.3 yearsJan 9, 2024 00:37:57 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] PotatoWhisperer2
[ - ] PotatoWhisperer2 2 points 1.3 yearsJan 9, 2024 00:20:20 ago (+2/-0)
But the rate at which AA works is at the same, or lower, rate than just stopping, or doing your own method.
I've helped family members(women) attend, even held their hand while they went through their first few meetings. So if you think you need it, go for it.
If you don't, then do your own research and come up with a good plan. A few tips is to keep yourself busy, surrounded by people who love you, and to have some ice-cream on standby for if the physical need gets to ya too hard. (The sugar helps, as that's what the alcohol turns into, and ice-cream keeps well and is a big/fast sugar boost)
You are not alone. Plenty of people here and on GAB, and on any other JQ-aware site wants you to be a better you, and will listen/bitch with/at you when you need it.
[ + ] NeonGreen
[ - ] NeonGreen 2 points 1.3 yearsJan 9, 2024 00:04:52 ago (+2/-0)
I'm doing 2024 sober. So my plan is even odds even odds.
FUCK AA. Just don't. It's a victims cult.
[ + ] LostWhale
[ - ] LostWhale 2 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 22:13:38 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] ReturnOfTheGoats
[ - ] ReturnOfTheGoats 2 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 22:00:58 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] jigganiggaboo
[ - ] jigganiggaboo 2 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 21:41:53 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] psykx
[ - ] psykx 2 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 21:34:47 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] Smedleys_Butler
[ - ] Smedleys_Butler 1 point 1.3 yearsJan 9, 2024 11:58:13 ago (+2/-1)
[ + ] BoozyB
[ - ] BoozyB 2 points 1.3 yearsJan 8, 2024 20:56:41 ago (+2/-0)
Respect and prayers for you.
[ + ] texasblood
[ - ] texasblood 1 point 1.3 yearsJan 9, 2024 09:50:46 ago (+2/-1)
Grasp the concept fully.
[ + ] GreenSaint
[ - ] GreenSaint 1 point 1.3 yearsJan 9, 2024 04:52:02 ago (+2/-1)
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