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"I struggle, what do you do?" should be your opener.

Learn about (or better yet, meet) her mother. Women can 'be' one thing or another, but they always become their mother.

Tell her about the fruits of your labors. Better...show her and let them speak for themselves.

If you have stable employment...show her the horses.

Women have no business involving themselves in the purview of men.

25 yrs old = 250 dicks have been in her, minimum

I talk to my stove sometimes. They tend to be pretty short conversations though.

That should just be a natural thing that comes up in conversation as you’re getting to know each other. If she is grilling you about if you have “stable employment,” that’s just kinda weird imo. Not responsible—weird. Sounds like she’s conducting a job interview and not trying to get to know you.

Yeah I got a job. U? That's how you respond. Murders and executions

In every species, the female is looking for quality mating material. In advanced species, the female is looking for quality mating material plus nesting behaviors. In human society, a high quality woman wants both and that includes the male's ability to provide a nest capable of security and provisions for the young.

We aren't like turtles who dig a hole, drop some eggs and just move on. Humans raise kids for about two decades and that demands serious ability to provide a home and provisions.

Low quality women think short term, quality women think long term. Your ideal mate is putting out feelers to find an adequate mate and to eliminate short term thinking fun boys. So if a woman asks about your financial stability, she's thinking long term. Any woman not looking into your long term financial adequacy is just looking for a fuck-buddy.

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Working part time at McDonald's is "stable employment". Doesn't mean you have money, just means you have a job that you're not likely to lose anytime soon. She's probably not a gold digger, she probably just doesn't want a guy who plays video games on his mom's couch all day. (not that I'm implying any of this is true for you)


Feel like a gold digger would be asking what you did for a living and pressing you for details. If she'd even bother talking to you to begin with, without already knowing. if she suddenly starts acting more interested if you tell her you have a 6 figure a year job, then yeah look out.

For what it's worth, I have never had a woman ask about "stable employment" unless she was interviewing me for a job. But nearly 100% of them ask me what I do for a living if it wasn't obvious. To me it seems odd if those were her exact words. I think you'd figure it out if she was a gold digger, because she'd be more hung up talking about money and spending money etc. If she's still talking more of the small talk kind of stuff, then I wouldn't worry too much.

You need to talk to her and get to know her.

Ask her what her thoughts are, on debt?

Would she do charitable work in her community?

Would she adopt an injured animal?

What is her relationship with her mother? Her dad?

Does she have manners, says thank you etc, show humility?

An actually 'quality' woman would not be looking for a man that settles for wage slavery. That would be a lower tier woman who's willing to settle herself.