Drake said nothing. He was listening to the sound of the voice. He said, "Ted, we've talked about this before. Not everybody likes it when you come on to them."
This is a terrible way to find out whether a woman wants to have sex with you. You're going to turn a lot of maybes into no answers by demonstrating zero social intelligence.
With a no it is highly dependent on things like followup after she says no and whether you can basically stay in her presence for a bit if she says no. A strong point there of course is you have her full attention. If you can number close it'll help a lot. Then she may decide to fuck you very soon.
Women know you're trying to bang them. Less direct approaches waste time, are not genuine, create confusion and delay sex, and get their attention less. Sometimes you literally don't have time either for any other approach.
Of course my point here is I'm trying to start an army. The sex is just a fringe benefit. But this approach is the best approach.
In the context of seduction or dating, the "apocalypse opener" refers to a direct and confident approach where you immediately ask someone if they want to go home with you, often with the expectation of a high success rate if executed with confidence.
Here's a breakdown:
Direct & Bold:
The opener is characterized by its directness and lack of small talk, focusing immediately on a potential romantic outcome.
Confidence is Key:
The theory behind the opener is that a high level of confidence, coupled with strong eye contact, can be persuasive.
Example:
The opener might involve saying something like, "Hey, how's it going? I'm really into you, do you want to go home with me?".
Alternative name
The opener is also sometimes referred to as the "go home opener"
If you cold approach them and ask them to fuck you'll probably get a no - but the response 80% of the time will be as pedestrian as if you asked her what time it is. They don't think it's a big deal. Nor should they.
I mean, I'm not even getting shit tests. So don't take anything women say here to the contrary too seriously. Is probably itself a shit test.
[ + ] Joe_McCarthy
[ - ] Joe_McCarthy [op] 0 points 3 weeksApr 12, 2025 16:11:47 ago (+0/-0)
"Yeah. She's a wise-ass bitch."
Drake said nothing. He was listening to the sound of the voice. He said, "Ted, we've talked about this before. Not everybody likes it when you come on to them."
"Yeah, they do. I mean, mostly they do."
- Michael Crichton, State of Fear
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[ - ] CHIRO 0 points 1 monthApr 2, 2025 00:50:01 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Joe_McCarthy
[ - ] Joe_McCarthy [op] 0 points 1 monthApr 2, 2025 10:23:51 ago (+0/-0)*
Women know you're trying to bang them. Less direct approaches waste time, are not genuine, create confusion and delay sex, and get their attention less. Sometimes you literally don't have time either for any other approach.
Of course my point here is I'm trying to start an army. The sex is just a fringe benefit. But this approach is the best approach.
[ + ] Joe_McCarthy
[ - ] Joe_McCarthy [op] 2 points 1 monthApr 1, 2025 22:44:47 ago (+2/-0)
Here's a breakdown:
Direct & Bold:
The opener is characterized by its directness and lack of small talk, focusing immediately on a potential romantic outcome.
Confidence is Key:
The theory behind the opener is that a high level of confidence, coupled with strong eye contact, can be persuasive.
Example:
The opener might involve saying something like, "Hey, how's it going? I'm really into you, do you want to go home with me?".
Alternative name
The opener is also sometimes referred to as the "go home opener"
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You don't have the balls. I do.
That's why I'm me and you're you.
[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit 1 point 1 monthApr 1, 2025 22:47:06 ago (+2/-1)
This is bad. Do not do this
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[ - ] Anus_Expander 3 points 1 monthApr 1, 2025 23:55:13 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] Joe_McCarthy
[ - ] Joe_McCarthy [op] 1 point 1 monthApr 2, 2025 00:20:25 ago (+1/-0)*
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Glass_of_water_theory
https://www.greenleft.org.au/content/kollontai-revolutionary-sex-and-free-love
If you cold approach them and ask them to fuck you'll probably get a no - but the response 80% of the time will be as pedestrian as if you asked her what time it is. They don't think it's a big deal. Nor should they.
I mean, I'm not even getting shit tests. So don't take anything women say here to the contrary too seriously. Is probably itself a shit test.