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On meeting women

submitted by IwuvU to AskUpgoat 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 11:06:45 ago (+13/-0)     (AskUpgoat)

Voat tells me dating sites are for pathetic losers.

idk about that but I've got a reasonably good profile on several apps and I'm getting jack shit for matches. Hilariously my most successful profile was one where I said something like "I'm just here to get rejected by all of you, you're all idiots, blah blah blah" 15 likes on that one but I gotta pay $65 to see who liked me and after having paid dating sites where I didn't even get one date before (paying for women who rejected me to hook up with men they think are better than me (rage)) I'm not giving any dating site another dime, ever.

I got no idea where to meet women. I don't know how to go to bars/clubs nor do I have anyone to go with.

I have two ideas:

1. Pay a woman off craigslist to act as a consultant who will tell me what to do and maybe hook something up.

2. I'm in good shape actually. Maybe 6 months of effort I could look amazing and become a personal trainer. No one has told me this but I assume personal trainers have unlimited access to pussy.

Also there are a few cashiers I think are cute and they've been nice when I talked to them but idk how to even try that.

I'm looking for a not obese lady who is smart and/or sweet that wants to start a family (maybe 35-40 years old).

I'm committed to this. Dating sites are worthless though. Need some good advice please. Thanks voat.


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[ - ] Sherb 6 points 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 12:00:47 ago (+7/-1)

You are a slave. Instead of working for yourself, you work for a cunt you don't even know yet. If a women see it like i just did, they will treat you as a slave. You don't go to bars, but theses places are filled with dudes just like you. They work all week long to spend it all on some chance with a women they don't even know, instead of investing on themselves.

It would be better to "shape up" like you said, at least that part is also helpfull to you instead of just her.

[ - ] IwuvU [op] 2 points 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 12:04:53 ago (+2/-0)

How am I a slave. I said I'm having a hard time meeting any woman at all. I didn't say anything about pathetically asking to be with her. Not sure if I could do that.


...ideally this would all be a NICE thing.

[ - ] account deleted by user 3 points 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 13:19:36 ago (+4/-1)

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[ - ] FuckYallImGoingHome 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 6, 2022 16:34:47 ago (+0/-0)

Pretty damn sure you are correct.

[ - ] Sherb 2 points 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 12:54:09 ago (+2/-0)

See, to me, "the pursuit of happiness" is just a clever lie and it indeed sound NICE. "Don't you want to be happy?" Just give me your everything and you will be happy. It's slave talk.

I can't help you about how to find them. That is probably the last thing I would think about on any given day.

[ - ] 2Drunk 2 points 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 18:44:00 ago (+2/-0)

bitches like money. Have money.

[ - ] NuckFiggers 6 points 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 13:03:47 ago (+6/-0)

Don't ever fucking EVER ask a woman how to meet women. Especially don't pay them. They know but they will never say how to meet women. They will just tell you bullshit.

As stupid as it sounds, to meet women you have to stop giving a fuck. Think about how much easier your life is without women and how much time, money and energy you save without them. Then think how much better you are than most women and how they would be lucky as fuck to get any attention from you. Then you start getting women.

[ - ] deleted 3 points 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 13:19:44 ago (+3/-0)

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[ - ] Greatmuta 3 points 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 13:47:15 ago (+3/-0)

Just take a shower and work on your personality bro.

Women have deemed you unfuckable. Sucks but that is a Blackpill in life. The fact is 80% of women fight for the top 20%/of men historically. In the modern age with Chad cock being a mere swipe away it is more like 90% go for 10%. Worse. The fundamental thing you have to understand is a woman would rather commit suicide than be with a sub 8 male.

But muta, I have a wife and I am troll. No. You are a wallet. Probably even have a life insurance policy against your own existence. This is what is required. You have to back yourself with all kinds of incentives and backup plans if you aren't chad.

[ - ] IwuvU [op] 1 point 3.2 yearsFeb 5, 2022 08:07:38 ago (+1/-0)

No, I don't think so. Im a fine person. I think dating sites are the problem.

[ - ] SirNiggsalot 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 7, 2022 09:23:21 ago (+0/-0)

I'm an older gent , and what I've noticed that ugly to barely average women think they rate a Greek god millionaire.

Women have always thought they rate better men than they really do , but it's totally fucking crazy now.

I feel bad for you young guys.
I wonder if social media is to blame .

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[ - ] 2Drunk 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 18:54:32 ago (+0/-0)

Tried that got jumped and they raped my dog. We are in mexico now.

[ - ] voat12 2 points 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 13:57:10 ago (+2/-0)

Be good looking, if u don't like taking pictures of yourself figure out why and if needed have surgery to fix it. Being good looking and in well fitted clothing and clean shoes make your job 100x easier. And yes gym definitely should for the extra confidence. Your body are your tits/ass to a woman, also u don't need to be jacked, just a little muscular is good enough. Then just walkup to girls in stores and talk for 2 minutes and ask out. You'll get rejected 19/20 times, and yes that number is based on real data from a slightly above average looking guy. But knowing that's the expected failure rate gives u the confidence to know you're doing fine. Half are already in a relationship so that factors into it also. When u talk to girls, don't be quiet, smile least once, be confident(don't move around too much/fidgety) and make a comment about something they're looking at buying that makes them want to respond in defense or ask why u have that opinion. U could do a bar but what kind of woman are u really going to find at bars? Bleh. Alternative is find a meetup group for whatever, hiking, etc and hangout and ask them out later.

[ - ] goat777 2 points 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 14:18:28 ago (+2/-0)

Please don't ask the cashiers. It's extremely awkward and uncomfortable when my customers ask me out. "Being nice" is literally part of my job and I'll be reprimanded if I'm not nice to people.

[ - ] Teefinyomouf 2 points 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 14:47:54 ago (+2/-0)

Bitch shield detected. Negging, push-pull, and triangular gazing will defeat it. Then we'll venue change before getting amogged my your manager.

[ - ] maroni 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 5, 2022 09:44:20 ago (+0/-0)

Yeah, basically. That and be a positive person.

[ - ] goat777 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 6, 2022 15:27:38 ago (+0/-0)

Sounds like fagspeak to me. I've had men try negging me, always hilarious when it backfires.

[ - ] Anus_Expander 2 points 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 15:24:07 ago (+2/-0)

Get a small, cute dog. Not a lap rat, but a terrier or beagle. Walk that little bastard at dog parks, near the zoo, beach, wherever roasties may be. Instant roastie magnet. Have a bag of cocaine ready to take it next level.

[ - ] RomanSalute 2 points 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 15:40:04 ago (+2/-0)

A lot of women who get personal trainers have low self esteem. That part makes it easier to bang them. A lot of them also get personal trainers for wedding days. Only bang them if they are marrying a shitskin. do not ever cuck another White man.

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[ - ] ShitsInHoneypots 1 point 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 11:15:10 ago (+1/-0)*

A guy's dating profile should just be one sentence. Just something that lets them know you're not a pussy, and where you'd take them if you go out.

You're also kind of a moron if you spend money on those services. They work fine without a subscription.

[ - ] DukeofRaul 1 point 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 11:31:38 ago (+1/-0)

The algorithim knows you. Dont use dating apps when you can go to a bar. Same women

[ - ] BitterVeteran 1 point 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 12:02:01 ago (+2/-1)

Go to your local church. Get envolved. Fuck virgins. Profit.

[ - ] con77 1 point 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 12:49:37 ago (+2/-1)

Are you 6'4"

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[ - ] Anus_Expander 1 point 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 15:25:52 ago (+2/-1)

And don't be a currynigger

[ - ] maroni 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 5, 2022 09:46:10 ago (+0/-0)

Black pill cope.

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[ - ] WanderingToast 1 point 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 18:39:04 ago (+1/-0)

There isn't a woman alive that you can't laugh into bed.

If you are using any dating apps or sites, the best one to use is whatever one has the most numbers (it will be one you don't pay for) probably tinder

Do Not Pay Women for dating advice!!!

Ignore cashier's etc.

[ - ] auto_turret__rev_A 1 point 3.2 yearsFeb 5, 2022 08:12:05 ago (+1/-0)

Today's dating scene seems so shitty and bleak. Sorry to hear.

Maybe it's because they've oversimplified dating with these apps. 20 years ago at an age when I had pussy on my mind 90% of the time, I discovered I could vastly increase the number of girls I met using the local chat rooms on Yahoo. Back then people just had a simple no-frills profile page with a low-rez photo. So you actually had long conversations with these women before you actually really met them. Yeah, I had to drive off on a shit ton of fat chicks... but eventually managed to find a decent chick to bring around home quite often. Which resulted in me being a bit of a player until I hit my mid-20's.

[ - ] beece 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 11:19:04 ago (+2/-2)*

Women want funny they say. Interestingly, the hottest women I've ever banged, all took some verbal shit from me first. Think of an interesting backhanded compliment to say like: Nice dress, it doesn't make you look too fat", then laugh and walk away. When she later approaches you to offer you reproach, and they usually will, Smile and welcome them with a comment like "So you finally gave in and came over here to buy me a drink?" Then laugh and welcome them to sit down with you. That might not work with many woman and if you don't want to try it, when you make eye contact with some random woman, lift your eyebrow, smile, then go about your business. Be approachable, but don't necessarily approach them, that can be threatening.

Engage with open ended questions once the opening pleasentrys end. Example: Don't say "Do you like cats", or "do you like dogs"? That's retarded and will likely get a "sure" and the convo ends. Ask something like, "would you say you are more of a dog or a cat person". If she hesitates you might say something like (laugh first) I'm not asking if you'd sleep with a Great Dane, what do you take me for, some kind of a perv?", then quickly add some shit like, "Not that I'm not a perv of course (then twist your head to the side and wrinkle your face to emphasize you "might" be kidding, but she'll have to guess what kind of perv you really are.

Then pause and leave the ball in her court.

Mostly, just don't be afraid to interact, even if it's something like, "I said something interesting to the last chick, I'm all used up, it's your turn now" or "Hi, sadly, I'm out of totally interesting things to say, and I'm not going to start in on politics, so I'm hoping you brought your A game and have something of interest". Smile, stare, wait. Get out there, and simply be interested, then practice with random ladies, don't worry about looks at first, just be open to the conversation. Looks will come if you can get the correct words and attitude. Before I was married they were literally lined up (fuck, I miss those days) and I'm not that attractive, under 6', broke, but fit - and I wasn't chasing them, they chased me. Women are everywhere, not just in bars or dating sites. Mine was working in the VA Hospital and when I got out she all but moved in with me before I knew what was happening and she hasn't left yet.

BTW, if you are carrying too much weight, get thee to a gym and get on a diet. Buy the Zone diet book, download the free Myfitnesspal.com app and lose that excess weight. Unless you have a hugely fat wallet, no woman wants a naked fat boy slimeing them from the top. Not sexy. Dress well and be clean. Just cause someone become a personal trainer, they won't get anymore snatch than the next person. It's about having a personality and being confident. Being indifferent will usually be construed as confidence as well. Women will chase you if you present correctly. Don't chase them, let them chase you.

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[ - ] maroni 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 5, 2022 09:49:12 ago (+0/-0)

Cope

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[ - ] Anus_Expander 1 point 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 15:31:07 ago (+1/-0)

'Just be confident', bro!

Confidence comes from past success. I cannot pass the bar exam with 'confidence'. A short ugly dude has no 'confidence', where the hell would it come from? His past failures with roasties?

[ - ] nordic1488 1 point 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 15:59:34 ago (+1/-0)

Good advice for USA. You have to play games to get girls. I learned to do that too. Then I discovered E European women. That shit doesn’t work on them. They’ll cal you out for being rude. So basically I started dating Russian speaking women and getting 8s, 9s and even a 10 just being polite, well-dressed and a good guy. The cultural difference is astounding. Never American girls again no matter how hot they are.

[ - ] Kozel 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 15:24:15 ago (+0/-0)

lmao

[ - ] gimpyoldman 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 4, 2022 12:11:17 ago (+0/-0)

[ - ] maroni 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 5, 2022 09:42:40 ago (+0/-0)

Dating apps will never work, try something IRL. Younger is easier.

It's the only thing worth doing.

[ - ] Lanfear 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 5, 2022 10:12:49 ago (+0/-0)

Too old. Any pregnancy after 33 is considered geriatric pregnancy.

[ - ] Lanfear 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 5, 2022 10:13:27 ago (+0/-0)

Too old. Any pregnancy after 33 is considered geriatric pregnancy.

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Gen z/millenial niglet detected

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