my mother in law and wife are just messing with me at this point - Upgoat

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"what she has been reading is stuff I've been telling her would happen for years now. She acts like this knowledge she is amassing is new, eye opening stuff .... She ends up reading excerpts which are word for word stuff Ive been repeating to her for months and years..."

Means she's not listening to you to until she wants to hear it. Fucking women.

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[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 1.5 yearsJan 2, 2024 08:49:59 ago (+0/-0)

And when this woman has anxiety, its debilitating for days. It pretty much makes this woman completely useless from a marriage perspective since half the month, shes MIA due to anxiety, emotions, period,

All of it. It's because you are letting her.

Quick question does she work outside of the house?

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[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 1.5 yearsJan 2, 2024 09:40:18 ago (+0/-0)

im not letting her

You are

i tell her

Words mean nothing

i end up making myself look terrible

So?

sit there and explain why

Hilarious

i fix the problem within an hour or so, than the mom and the siblings keep feeding her poison which re activates the anxiety.

So you didnt fix it

She does work outside of the house,

of course

she still spends a LOT of time trying to appease her family,

She doesnt have confidence in you

Any talk

More talking

every time i tell her to stop

more talking

she loves annoying and irritating me because she thinks its funny.

Shes not scared of you.

This person has zero concept of what it means to be in a relationship or marred

Literally you

Your marriage sounds exhausting. Why is there so much talking? What are both of you going to do with kids? Talk them to death? Are you financially dependant on her family? These people are in short trying to "kill you" and you're trying to negotiate? I know what she's saying while she's over there and whats being said to her and she doesnt see you as enough to fight for you.

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[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 1.5 yearsJan 2, 2024 10:09:10 ago (+0/-0)

Im immediately labeled as some kind of asshole monster

Me too. Its ok. I'd rather people think of me as a horrible bitch then be ran over. You're protecting whats yours and there is nothing wrong with that.

This should be your role. Not hers. I'm positive she'll appreciate you more if you take that role on instead of making her be the one.

How does she have time to visit with them so often and have a job? Thats probably the first thing you can work on "non communicatively" speaking. 😆

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[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 1.5 yearsJan 2, 2024 13:54:11 ago (+0/-0)

Im throughly enjoying our conversation.

What do you do if her parents are filling these roles?

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[ - ] Love240 3 points 1.5 yearsJan 1, 2024 12:37:39 ago (+3/-0)

https://youtu.be/3m5qxZm_JqM

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[ - ] FacelessOne 4 points 1.5 yearsJan 1, 2024 13:03:43 ago (+4/-0)

Lol, thanks @Graydragon

[ - ] 2Drunk 2 points 1.5 yearsJan 1, 2024 13:38:06 ago (+2/-0)

Have you tried applying the old mushroom stamp?

[ - ] Gowithit 2 points 1.5 yearsJan 1, 2024 12:50:28 ago (+2/-0)

word for word stuff Ive been repeating to her for months and years.

Might as well get used to it now. It will always be this way.

[ - ] Smedleys_Butler 2 points 1.5 yearsJan 1, 2024 12:43:32 ago (+2/-0)

Aren't narcissists incurable?

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[ - ] FacelessOne 4 points 1.5 yearsJan 1, 2024 13:02:50 ago (+4/-0)

Incurable yes, but you can stop letting them feed off you by cutting them off.

[ - ] mxcviel 0 points 1.5 yearsJan 2, 2024 20:47:39 ago (+0/-0)

FYI, narcissistic abuse victims are like a gambling addicts, brain works the same... that love bombing is their emotional jack pot win. And you seem to be a narcissist too, otherwise you'd take your wife away from that toxic mother, not writhing about her here.

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[ - ] beece 1 point 1.5 yearsJan 1, 2024 12:01:36 ago (+1/-0)

Good luck OP, sounds like you and the wife have turned the corner.

[ - ] Zyklonbeekeeper 0 points 1.5 yearsJan 1, 2024 14:36:41 ago (+0/-0)

Have you ever suggested that she take meds?..."STFU" (shut the fuck up) pills work miracles, the R/X script starts with 4x "STFU" pills right away and then 2x "STFU" pills every 2hrs after, the normal dosage is 1 "STFU" pill every 4hrs but given that you're predicament is of a "SNAFU" nature, (situation normal all fucked up) it's better to go with the compounded dosage...you may want to apply the occasional "compound fracture" also...or...you can try kicking the family cat up against the wall a few times, try it for the first 5days and if your situation remains the same you may want to consider c4 or SEMTEX underneath the driver's seat of your wife's car...she'll have a "blast" of a time.

[ - ] HonkyMcNiggerSpic -1 points 1.5 yearsJan 1, 2024 14:29:28 ago (+0/-1)

Invite them all over for a good room whack.

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my mother in law and wife are just messing with me at this point submitted by deleted to Rants 1.5 yearsJan 1, 2024 11:24:11 ago (+3/-2) (Rants)

my mother in law and wife are just messing with me at this point
submitted by deleted to Rants 1.5 yearsJan 1, 2024 11:24:11 ago (+3/-2) (Rants)