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I married a dumb cunt. It's 100% my fault. This happened because I didn't have many prospects. If there's any value to this, let this be a warning to you. We've seen how one act of despair ends up making this far worse and unfixable later on, like that endlessly long post from that woman that married a drunkard to have kids. She's fucked and so am I.

I have a kid and one on the way. I am fucked, no way out. She's a disorganized slob. The red flags were there along the way but I didn't know any better. I didn't have a lot of choices or experience. I didn't have to do this. If I could go back I would and tell myself just wait a little longer you'll find someone worth your while.

I had another kid because my son needs a sibling. I was an only child and my parents left me and that was very hard. Still is.

Because of this woman I have given up on everything. Work hard, for fucking what? The house is a constant mess from the shit she leaves behind. She never vacuums the house, doesn't pick up after herself, leaves dirty dishes everywhere. She expects me to pick up after her because "she's busy". I ask her, do you expect me to wipe your ass for you, too? Then she starts yelling at me. I spend most of my day trying to find work and working on the house. I fix everything around here. We bought this house top dollar at the height of this recent bubble because we were having a kid and didn't want to rent anymore. It was her idea, too. I kept insisting to move away from this expensive area, to get fuck out of this crazy shitlib state. Of course she opposed me then because she didn't follow politics at all but STILL HAD AN OPINION, now she wants to leave, too. Well fucking how, you dumb bitch??? We blew our savings on this place now we are STUCK. I am glad you finally wised up in some regard but it's TOO LATE.

The house needed work. It still needs work, I am fixing old rot that was left. I can't even list the number of things that I have fixed around here. It would have cost tens and tens of thousands of dollars to fix all this shit. I am fighting the yard, trying to keep on top of all the shit that grows. I want to cut some stuff down to make it easier to maintain, but she doesn't want me to. Note that she never goes out to pluck weeds, or cut the grass or anything. She just tells me what I can and can't do from her fucking high tower. She has ZERO understanding about the amount of work that it takes.

I am so sick of this shit. I feel like I want to go out for a pack of cigarettes and never come back. According to a lot of people I would be a scumbag if I did that. Instead I am expected to be here, a slave to this dumb situation. I am only here for the kids. I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't do drugs. I play a few games here and there to forget about my shit life. Surely if I didn't spent 2 hours a day playing, I would have time for a full time job, travel and still do all the work outside the house and inside, picking up after her included, and have time to spend with my son? Right. Two hours will magically transform in 8-9, right?

She's so fucking dumb, I now tell it to her face. She comes down for a snack, takes shit out of the fridge, then being the forgetful dumb shit that she is, remembers she has a meeting, so she runs off. She comes back, finding out that she doesn't actually have a meeting, and at that point I notice there is shit on the counter that is supposed to be in the fridge. I am like, WTF, why is this out? So I ask her. Then she starts flipping her shit and starts yelling at me for "putting her down". Note that at this point all I said was "why is this out? Did you take it? -Yes. Ok, why didn't you put it back before you left?" Then she starts yelling how she has no time for this and that and insinuates that I am supposed to go around looking for shit she left out, picking up after her, like I am some kind of fucking servant. She didn't pick up after herself when I was working full time EITHER and I still had the house to take care of. She keeps holding that over my head how I don't have a job. Soon enough I will find work, but she will change NOTHING and less shit will get done, because WE'VE ALREADY BEEN THERE. She once left an apple core THREE FUCKING DAYS on the counter until we got fruit flies. We had a fight over than when I eventually snapped and confronted her about it.

A few days ago she left the milk out 2 hours. It was ruined, then she puts it back in the fridge, to serve later to our son. WTF man, how fucking dumb is she? Do I ask her to go around outside and pick up the tools after I am done? I don't know what to do anymore, I think I have to abandon working on the house entirely, find a job and move out. Let her deal with whatever the fuck comes after that. I wasn't born to be this bitch's assistant. I feel really bad for my son, what kind of fucked up ways will he learn from this bitch.

Marriage is dumb, women are stupid. If you're gonna get married just be aware ALL THE SHIT that you DON'T LIKE in them will NEVER CHANGE. And eventually your GOODWILL will RUN OUT and all will be left are the PROBLEMS that you IGNORED. Better to be alone than chained to a hag. If you're single right now THANK YOURSELF and know that I WISH I WAS YOU!

I am buying an RV and sticking a bike on the back. She's on thin ice, every shit fight she starts another limb on the hangman gets drawn. When it finishes I am leaving this bitch and she can FIGURE IT ALL OUT. Fuck this house, fuck all the money that is lost, I just want the rest my life back! I OWE HER NOTHING!