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Self-control

submitted by UncleDoug to Stoicism 8 monthsSep 23, 2024 04:38:06 ago (+29/-1)     (pomf2.lain.la)

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It's ok goats to enjoy a libation for favour, you don't have to drink to get blackout drunk.

Self-control, or the ability to manage one's impulses, emotions, and behaviors to achieve long-term goals.



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[ - ] ButtToucha9000 3 points 8 monthsSep 23, 2024 10:14:35 ago (+3/-0)

This does not mean that. This is the opposite of an "everything in moderation, bros" quote.

Epicetus is literally saying freedom ISNT from giving in to desire. Its to controlling the DESIRE, not controlling the USE. Its saying remove the WANT to truly be free.

Stop drinking. Find another way. Remove the desire for escape.

[ - ] Lurkathon9000 1 point 8 monthsSep 23, 2024 22:03:15 ago (+1/-0)

Right.
Once you cease desire and perpetually live in the moment, content and fulfilment will come to you like you've never imagined.

[ - ] UncleDoug [op] 0 points 8 monthsSep 24, 2024 09:15:05 ago (+0/-0)

Its to controlling the DESIRE, not controlling the USE.

That's where you are wrong, I'll explain it a little further on.

It's not about being puritanical when it comes to controlling behaviours. The quote is about stop feeding desire. Can you exercise self-control and discipline to enjoy the things in life without them ruling over you.

Bad vices could be poor dietary habits, its only an issue if you are driven by addiction and impulsiveness to continually seek out poor food choices rather than using it as a treat. It's a very narrow mindset if you think the only way to manage vices is by going cold-turkey on anything you believe you can't moderate successfully.

[ - ] Deplorablepoetry 0 points 8 monthsSep 23, 2024 15:33:24 ago (+0/-0)*

Hey diddle diddle

Another fag post fetch my fiddle

Play a sad song of lament

Better to wear a pair of workboats of cement

Tossed off of yonder bridge into raging river

Cry at the so sad cemetery plot, remember to bring a tissue for snot

It’s not that you suffer from self control

You suffer from mind control

It’s as simple as the fact that you will not look away from this comment no matter what dumb shot I might/will will say

Sure occasionally clever with my verse you are forced to read the next adverse

Ready? Okay.

Fuck you die, kinda lazy today.

But, if I were to pause this typing for just long enough to crack another beer and have another puff


…hmmm., seems I now may give much a care for your welfare

[ - ] Crackinjokes 0 points 8 monthsSep 23, 2024 13:09:05 ago (+0/-0)

I actually don't know if I agree with that. So just because somebody who had a statue made for them says something doesn't mean they're all winners

[ - ] Sector2 0 points 8 monthsSep 23, 2024 12:28:28 ago (+0/-0)

I've had three alcohols in one evening 4 times this year so far.

[ - ] ImplicationOverReason -4 points 8 monthsSep 23, 2024 04:58:56 ago (+0/-4)

a) Freedom implies free within dominance aka choice within balance aka want within need aka effect within cause...

b) Control implies con (together; with) rota (wheel; roll; revolve), which turns one against each other, hence CONTRO = CONTRA.

[ - ] ButtToucha9000 3 points 8 monthsSep 23, 2024 10:16:07 ago (+3/-0)

No it doesn't. Freedon is choice without constraint why tf r u implying any caveats to it that's not freedom.

[ - ] ImplicationOverReason -1 points 8 monthsSep 24, 2024 06:44:31 ago (+0/-1)

Freedom is choice without constraint

a) Take life for example...free to move up/down + left/right + front/back, yet constrained from inception towards death. One can only be FREE to choose if one can choose in-between a DOMinating offer to choose from.

Ask yourself...Free to choose from what? Free to choose within where? Free to choose why?

b) Dominate; verb - "have chief influence over or effect on"... https://www.etymonline.com/word/dominate

Does cause (balance) influence effect (choice)?

c) Caveat/kei - "to see; to perceive"... https://www.etymonline.com/word/caveat

Does all perceivable dominate ones free perception? Without all perceivable; would ones perception be free to see anything?

No it doesn't...that's not...

a) What if others suggest nihil-ism (Latin nihilo; nothing) to tempt one to ignore aka de-nial everything perceivable?

b) You are free to choose "no" right? Are you free to choose "no" when it comes to hunger and thirst or does your free will of choice gets forced to choose to eat and drink in response to a dominating natural law? You are still free to choose what to eat and drink right?

c) Are you free to touch a butt or does a butt has to exist for you to be free to touch it?

[ - ] Love240 1 point 8 monthsSep 24, 2024 06:46:09 ago (+1/-0)

More non-sense.

[ - ] ImplicationOverReason 0 points 8 monthsSep 24, 2024 06:57:46 ago (+0/-0)

a) Can one sense nothing? If so, then how?

b) Can there be more than everything perceivable? Can others suggest more than everything perceivable?

c) What is more than energy?