The mom is incredibly controlling and a fraud. She will lie, cheat, steal, anything to maintain control. She also has a habit of using subterfuge and deception to evade any accountability for her actions. All those dark triad traits are there, similar to how jews operate. And just like jews, they aren't very subtle and their manipulative ways can be seen once exposed for what they are doing.
The mom is fueling my wife into a sense of hyper entitlement and in turn, she's become useless in the marriage. My wife operates more as a feminist, than what one would expect from a wife. Chores aren't being done anymore, most common tasks are seen as beneath her, kicking and screaming at the thought of having to do an ounce of work. It's all fueled by the mom championing learned helplessness.
It's very clear the mom is setting up for a divorce, and she's using the entitlement as a way to show I'm not marriage material. What's more sad is my wife is going along with it, stabbing me in the back in the process.
Why does everyone keep entertaining this absolute pathetic excuse of a man? Stop engaging with this weak kike. He does this every three or four months, like clockwork. He moans and whines like a little bitch and never does anything to fix his problems.
Hey fucko, you don’t deserve kind words or respect from anyone here!!!!
It’s harsh but it’s the truth. I think you know me well enough as a user here to know I’m not mean to people unless they deserve it. He’s done this same “my wife and her mom” bit at least four or five times in the past year. People were so incredibly kind to him and wrote lengthy paragraphs and linked resources. His first post got 50 or 60 responses of kind-hearted users.
I’m irritated because he continues to use people here for their altruism without making changes and repeating the same story.
I notice you didn't mention a father-in-law. Where is he? Dead? Divorced and out of the picture?
If divorced, there was your first bad sign. A divorced single mother whose daughter is closer with her than her father is a divorce waiting to happen. Unhappy women will convince happy women to ruin their lives, even their own female family members will do this to them.
It puts OP in a shitty situation, because really you should be saying "Look, your mother needs to keep out of our relationship. I don't want you to be taking advice from her, BECAUSE SHE'S DIVORCED. She doesn't know what it takes to keep a marriage together, but she knows how to take it apart, and it's obvious that she's pushing you in that direction."
[ - ] Sector2 1 point 3 monthsJan 13, 2025 17:13:55 ago (+1/-0)
You're potentially facing jail or prison time. There are feminist guides showing how to legally screw you to the wall, and all that's needed is the desire to stab you in the back, or stab you in the face.
"Scratch and redden your face before you call 911 for help."
Word to the wise, get out while you still can. If you have children with that woman, RIP.
I tried that, every time i try to hold my wife to standards and discipline, like clockwork the mom calls me abusive (shocker /s). So there's no way to discipline my wife without her mom constantly excusing her shitty behavior. The end result is my wife has slowly become more useless over time, as her sense of entitlement grows. And as i keep trying to hold her accountable, the mom keeps making excuses.
A great example, the mom lied pretty obtusely at one point. What i witnessed (but couldn't piece together at the time) was a psychopath who fucked over EVERYONE around her to maintain control. She triangulate siblings, isolated her kids from each other, spread lies and gossip, smeared people for control, and then used religion to ensure no one could hold her accountable.
Then when called out on it by me, she played stupid, lied through her teeth, and told me i was un Christian for calling her out. Guess what happened? Correct, it gave the mom an excuse to act like an even shittier human being.
How could he have not known his mother-in-law was going to be a bitch like this? This is why you need to get to know your spouse's family before marriage.
There's an old saying: "If you want to know what your girlfriend/wife will be like in 30 years, look at her mother." This applies to both physical traits and personality. It's remarkably accurate- most women's bodies undergo transformations that line up perfectly with what their mother looks like as they age. Besides that, they handle (or mishandle) things in life the same way their mother taught them to.
OP didn't notice this entitlement in the mother or daughter. I also notice he didn't mention a father-in-law. That's interesting- where is he? Did the bitch mother-in-law divorce him? Because that's a huuuuge red flag. Mothers and daughters are like crabs in a bucket, the older women HATE seeing younger women succeed, especially in places that they've failed themselves. For example: old bitch stabs her husband in the back with a sudden divorce. Their daughter gets into a happy marriage. This drives the mother absolutely out of her fucking mind, and she only feels good when her daughter is suffering the way she did, self-inflicted or whatever.
You need to talk to your wife about it. Give her your expectations and ask what she expects if you. Also don't be afraid to tell your mother inlaw to fuck off, it's all about open communication. Do you have children with this woman?
- Protect yourself, and your finances before you do anything else. - covertly document everything for legal purposes. - tell the wife, and mother straight up, and then let the chips fall where they may.
Do it in that order in case your wife, and cunt of a mother-in-law don't take it well.
They wont, i can tell you that now. This is what prompted me to lock down my finances and all my cards, etc. All passwords rotated as well. Just in case. At one point i had a very simple request for the mom, to admit she was being deceptive. Not only could she not do it, she called me every name in the book to get around what she did. This woman gives zero fucks how many people she has to throw under the bus, or emotionally manipulate to get her way. And my wife is still stuck in the fog thinking her mom is Jesus reincarnate
Do your part and give the wife the opportunity to cut the umbilical cord. If she refuses then lock it down and remove them both before things get worse.
[ + ] puremadness
[ - ] puremadness 0 points 3 monthsJan 15, 2025 00:44:18 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Anus_Expander
[ - ] Anus_Expander 0 points 3 monthsJan 13, 2025 22:12:20 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] 4thTurning
[ - ] 4thTurning 2 points 3 monthsJan 13, 2025 20:21:58 ago (+2/-0)
So you have a defective pet.
Just stop returning home. She is useless and any time around her will be wasted.
Put the house up for sale.
Women are a dime a dozen.
They are easy and retarded.
Not a single one is worth an effort of sweat.
You will find a new one in a week if you have a job.
[ + ] puremadness
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[ + ] TheOriginal1Icemonkey
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[ + ] i_scream_trucks
[ - ] i_scream_trucks 1 point 3 monthsJan 13, 2025 19:02:20 ago (+1/-0)
cunt is about to drag you into years of legal shit by proxy.
[ + ] dingbat
[ - ] dingbat 3 points 3 monthsJan 13, 2025 18:53:59 ago (+4/-1)
Hey fucko, you don’t deserve kind words or respect from anyone here!!!!
[ + ] TheOriginal1Icemonkey
[ - ] TheOriginal1Icemonkey 1 point 3 monthsJan 13, 2025 19:16:37 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] dingbat
[ - ] dingbat 5 points 3 monthsJan 13, 2025 20:28:46 ago (+5/-0)
I’m irritated because he continues to use people here for their altruism without making changes and repeating the same story.
[ + ] TheOriginal1Icemonkey
[ - ] TheOriginal1Icemonkey 1 point 3 monthsJan 13, 2025 20:44:23 ago (+1/-0)
Please refer to my previous response!
[ + ] dingbat
[ - ] dingbat 2 points 3 monthsJan 13, 2025 20:31:22 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] TheOriginal1Icemonkey
[ - ] TheOriginal1Icemonkey 2 points 3 monthsJan 13, 2025 20:42:55 ago (+2/-0)
Side note: I think I love you!😚
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[ + ] BloodyComet
[ - ] BloodyComet 3 points 3 monthsJan 13, 2025 18:19:31 ago (+3/-0)
If divorced, there was your first bad sign. A divorced single mother whose daughter is closer with her than her father is a divorce waiting to happen. Unhappy women will convince happy women to ruin their lives, even their own female family members will do this to them.
It puts OP in a shitty situation, because really you should be saying "Look, your mother needs to keep out of our relationship. I don't want you to be taking advice from her, BECAUSE SHE'S DIVORCED. She doesn't know what it takes to keep a marriage together, but she knows how to take it apart, and it's obvious that she's pushing you in that direction."
[ + ] Sector2
[ - ] Sector2 1 point 3 monthsJan 13, 2025 17:13:55 ago (+1/-0)
"Scratch and redden your face before you call 911 for help."
Word to the wise, get out while you still can. If you have children with that woman, RIP.
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[ + ] SteppingRazor
[ - ] SteppingRazor 0 points 3 monthsJan 13, 2025 16:55:14 ago (+0/-0)
Her mom has nothing to do with this.
[ + ] SmallGuyFromBrooklyn
[ - ] SmallGuyFromBrooklyn [op] 0 points 3 monthsJan 17, 2025 08:29:55 ago (+0/-0)
A great example, the mom lied pretty obtusely at one point. What i witnessed (but couldn't piece together at the time) was a psychopath who fucked over EVERYONE around her to maintain control. She triangulate siblings, isolated her kids from each other, spread lies and gossip, smeared people for control, and then used religion to ensure no one could hold her accountable.
Then when called out on it by me, she played stupid, lied through her teeth, and told me i was un Christian for calling her out. Guess what happened? Correct, it gave the mom an excuse to act like an even shittier human being.
[ + ] dirtywhiteboy
[ - ] dirtywhiteboy 0 points 3 monthsJan 18, 2025 23:23:22 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] registereduser
[ - ] registereduser 5 points 3 monthsJan 13, 2025 16:38:32 ago (+5/-0)
Dumb fuck.
Have fun supporting that cunt while she fucks some nigger for the rest of your life.
[ + ] BloodyComet
[ - ] BloodyComet 2 points 3 monthsJan 13, 2025 18:17:19 ago (+2/-0)
There's an old saying: "If you want to know what your girlfriend/wife will be like in 30 years, look at her mother." This applies to both physical traits and personality. It's remarkably accurate- most women's bodies undergo transformations that line up perfectly with what their mother looks like as they age. Besides that, they handle (or mishandle) things in life the same way their mother taught them to.
OP didn't notice this entitlement in the mother or daughter. I also notice he didn't mention a father-in-law. That's interesting- where is he? Did the bitch mother-in-law divorce him? Because that's a huuuuge red flag. Mothers and daughters are like crabs in a bucket, the older women HATE seeing younger women succeed, especially in places that they've failed themselves. For example: old bitch stabs her husband in the back with a sudden divorce. Their daughter gets into a happy marriage. This drives the mother absolutely out of her fucking mind, and she only feels good when her daughter is suffering the way she did, self-inflicted or whatever.
[ + ] BannedEverwhere
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[ + ] KosherHiveKicker
[ - ] KosherHiveKicker 3 points 3 monthsJan 13, 2025 16:44:19 ago (+3/-0)
- Protect yourself, and your finances before you do anything else.
- covertly document everything for legal purposes.
- tell the wife, and mother straight up, and then let the chips fall where they may.
Do it in that order in case your wife, and cunt of a mother-in-law don't take it well.
[ + ] SmallGuyFromBrooklyn
[ - ] SmallGuyFromBrooklyn [op] 1 point 3 monthsJan 17, 2025 08:22:07 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] KosherHiveKicker
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