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I haven't been on the dating scene for about 15 years, but I was always ready to drop a woman immediately if she wasn't willing to commit to only me. Is that not still the case? Is that not the case anymore?

If she doesn't want to see things through with you, what's the point? You're better off alone - your kids that might have been have a better future (and thus society is better off) without a whored out mom. If you can't break the bitch, let her loose and move on. There are lots of good women out there, believe it or not. You just might not be a very good man.

Still, for all but like 2-3 women in my life, I was more comfortable being alone. And even for those 2-3, I initiated the break up because things weren't working. Those are the ones that fizzled out instead of being clean breaks - when you both know it's over, but familiarity and stability are still attractive. Eventually the stability fully decays, and with that the familiarity soon follows.

Anyway, finally found one that would work\.

\Lol just reread; that sounds bad. She is a good one - I don't want to understate that part. But it's more the point of: Did I check every single box that I wanted to? No, and in retrospect I'm fairly certain some of my boxes were in direct conflict with one another. See the hot vs. crazy plot - the 10 hot girl having 0 crazy (or even a manageable amount of crazy) is a unicorn.

You may need to really scrutinize what it really is you want. You may come to the realization that some of your priorities have competing interests, and you need to sort out which one wins. If you highest priority is sex and sexiness, well, a.) you've got a whore's mentality, so that's likely who you'll meet, and b.) don't be upset when you meet someone else who has commitment as a secondary objective and acts accordingly.

Normal men can't even get a woman, they need to be forced into monogamy.

so what you're saying is either way the women lose?

i'll agree that men tend to complain better.

come on man, don't be so pessimistic, there's a lid for every pot, as the saying goes

It's too easy. You have to actively avoid them or they'll want to hang out or "come visit you". Then you're screwed in not the good way, although it may start like that.

I know I shouldn't read article comments, but this is the exact opposite of what I observe. Almost always women not only have a "potential" in the pipeline - they're already cheating. Then after cheating enough, they make a plan with the paramour to make a more permanent arrangement. I've had women try to use me to that end, and I've seen those same women (or others) use other men to that end.

Usually women like that just start cheating again once the paramour thrill gets old. That's because they're dumb whores - they don't know what they want beyond dick. So watch out.

Anyway I regularly broke up with women because I would rather just be alone than be with the wrong woman. If you enjoy stability, be stable yourself, and eventually you'll find a woman seeking the same thing. If you want a moral woman, go to places that you'll find moral women.

Lol. Ok. Imagine being so weak you are too scared to emotionally attach to a woman. I hope you realize someday that not all women are the way that it seems in modern culture. There are plenty of women that want a family and dont want to whore. Find one. Make more of you for the future.