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Why do Nice Guys Date Bitches?

submitted by dingbat to AskUpgoat 2 monthsFeb 23, 2025 21:38:15 ago (+20/-0)     (AskUpgoat)

I stayed with my cousin and her fiancée this weekend when I was out of town for the wedding we all attended. She is the type of woman you all would undoubtedly detest. Very “boss lady”— urban dweller, no kids, never married in her forties, makes a ridiculous amount of dough, very brash. She has heavy masculine energy. She’s not liberal, so I suppose that’s a plus, but she’d rather have a conversation about The Real Housewives than about how jews run the world. It sucks being a woman who knows stuff like this, but I digress.
She’s been dating her fiancée for several years. He really is such a genuine, good guy that has a lot going for him. He’s an officer in a financial firm, Ivy League educated, 6’6”, still has all his hair, knows about the jews, but rather than finding a younger woman he can lead, he ends up looking like an absolute retard by letting my cousin perpetually emasculate him. I was there for less than 48 hours and I couldn’t wait to get back to my house.
She was stomping around like a toddler because he spilled beer on the couch and a blanket. She threw the blanket in the washer (“I live with a child and have to fuckin’ do EVERYTHING around here!”) and dramatically took the cushion off the couch, saying there is no way the smell would be able to come out. She started saying weird shit to their dog, like, “ohhh, you lost your favorite seat on the couch because daddy spilled beer all over it and now you have nowhere to lay!” I felt like crawling into a hole. If she was scolding this guy in front of me in that regard, what does she do when others aren’t around?
I just don’t understand. Why would a man who didn’t have to put up with this shit choose to put up with it, AND choose to marry it? He’s three years younger than her! Is it a kink? Because that’s the only logic I can come up with.


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[ - ] PuddinTame 0 points 3 weeksApr 8, 2025 22:01:39 ago (+0/-0)

My guess would be for pretty much the same reason bitches are addicted to 'bad boys'. Danger! Thrills! Excitement! For guys, add in a whole lotsa 'Taming of the Shrew' mentality.

Come to think of it, that seems to be a component in bitchthink too. Most all silly Harlequin romance novels contain the usual "I can change him; mold him to be my ideal man" tripe.

[ - ] SumerBreeze 17 points 2 monthsFeb 23, 2025 21:50:43 ago (+17/-0)

He is too busy with work and too comfortable not being in the dating scene - which is worse than ever before - to actually give a damn about erratic behavior he’s already learned to ignore by this point; he lost his balls somewhere behind the new washing machine.

[ - ] dingbat [op] 6 points 2 monthsFeb 23, 2025 22:06:15 ago (+6/-0)

Yep. He spent most of the time in his office and he slept on the couch one night. She was so pissed. It was funny.

[ - ] puremadness 4 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 04:11:20 ago (+4/-0)

I concur with this and would add....


His mother was probably a cunt too. He thinks this is normal.
Hist mother, probably did this to his father.

[ - ] BoozyB 14 points 2 monthsFeb 23, 2025 21:50:07 ago (+14/-0)

He has mommy issues.
Not joking.
She treats him just like his mother did and he's ok with it.

[ - ] MasklessTheGreat 10 points 2 monthsFeb 23, 2025 21:56:24 ago (+10/-0)

Yep. Jesse Lee Peterson always tell mother fuckers they married their momma. Shit is real. Boys were supposed to leave mom and go learn to be a man from dad. This is why we are fucked.

[ - ] SumerBreeze 2 points 2 monthsFeb 23, 2025 22:05:58 ago (+4/-2)

Jesse Lee Peterson sucks the jew dick hard.

He has pedophile issues.

I would ditch paying any attention to that nigger.

[ - ] MasklessTheGreat 5 points 2 monthsFeb 23, 2025 22:33:28 ago (+5/-0)

I agree on the jew dick thing.

Don’t have any data on your pedo claims.

I don’t other than for occasional entertainment value. Even a broken clock is right twice in one day.

[ - ] dingbat [op] 9 points 2 monthsFeb 23, 2025 21:56:45 ago (+9/-0)

Ok, I’m picking up what you’re throwing down. His mom passed a few years ago, right before they started dating and his dad died suddenly when he was in his late twenties.

[ - ] Doglegwarrior 9 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 00:33:17 ago (+9/-0)

He is trauma bonded. I am a pretty strong willed guy never been addicted to anything except I'd say basketball as a kid until about 35 or 40 it was my identity played college ball was a coach a good addition besides basketball being a nigger sport th3se days...at least the best couple players in the world are white and the best prospect in college is white.

I digress the thing is I got trauma bonded to a woman that sounds similar to this woman a covert narrisist this woman is a covert narc almost for sure from your description... yes the term is thrown around but I believe it is real and an epidemic in modern feminist type women social media dating apps modern jew society to me is the root cause of this epidemic

Anyways this fucking trauma bonding shit sneaks up on you and is the most addictive fucked up shit I've ever been through I still can't totally break the shit.. I've met multiple people men and women who have gone through it it is fucking insane and makes no fucking sense at all but when yiu are a good normal person who falls in love with one of the narc demons it truly is a mind fuck.

I'm open to advice but and have read a ton of shit about it but still can't get myself totally out of it

[ - ] lolxd 2 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 01:55:28 ago (+2/-0)

It's called Stockholm Syndrome.

[ - ] dassar 1 point 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 03:29:44 ago (+1/-0)

AKA a sometimes-accessible cunt....

[ - ] lolxd 0 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 12:27:57 ago (+0/-0)

Rarely accessible pussy is the least what happens to people that have fallen into this psychological trap.

Pussy is more of a gateway than the real cause and trauma.

[ - ] PotatoWhisperer2 0 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 14:10:23 ago (+0/-0)

and an epidemic in modern feminist type women social media dating apps modern jew society to me is the root cause of this epidemic

It's not modern, it's not tech based, it's not new. In the failing years of Rome jews ran rampant and women were so bad that men refused to have anything to do with them. So much so that the they wanted to institute a bachelor tax to support all the unmarried women screeching and whoring around.

We all know the solution.

[ - ] Sleazy 8 points 2 monthsFeb 23, 2025 22:02:06 ago (+8/-0)

You do not know what he says or does to her in private.

[ - ] dingbat [op] 4 points 2 monthsFeb 23, 2025 22:09:19 ago (+4/-0)

I hope he was only being polite because I was around.

[ - ] dassar 2 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 03:28:29 ago (+2/-0)

You should have pulled one for the team by hitting them both up at the same time and laid it on to her thick and heavy of what an insane unhinged lunatic she sounded like talking to her partner that way and then evened it up by also (politely) dressing him down for letting her emasculate himself esp in front of a stranger (you).
Then thanked them both for a lovely weekend - and 'coffee anyone ??'

[ - ] MaryXmas 7 points 2 monthsFeb 23, 2025 21:52:46 ago (+7/-0)

It won't last if that's what you are asking.

[ - ] Gowithit 6 points 2 monthsFeb 23, 2025 21:51:15 ago (+7/-1)

haha
Those bitches that complain about doing laundry or cooking have never known a day when they couldn't do either. End of the world will knock them on their ass and their husbands along with them.

I've seen the same and say thats a you thing if complained about but in my head I know they(the men) got with their mom or grandma. Because I know their mom and grandma and its exactly the same person.

[ - ] deleted 0 points 2 monthsFeb 23, 2025 22:00:28 ago (+0/-0)

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[ - ] KosherHiveKicker 5 points 2 monthsFeb 23, 2025 22:54:29 ago (+6/-1)

Is she hot, and does she swallow?

[ - ] dassar 2 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 03:31:04 ago (+2/-0)

Apparently, someone thinks so ....

[ - ] deleted 0 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 03:31:04 ago (+0/-0)

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[ - ] Merlynn 4 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 03:05:08 ago (+4/-0)

Ok,here's how it works. When you're young,the dating scene is about 50/50 good ones and bitches. As time goes on,the good ones get married and taken off the market while the bitches fuck up their relationships and stay on the market. Eventually,you reach an age where they're all bitches and your only option is to find one you can put up with.

In the end,he's just as fucked in the head to end up at his age and involved with a woman who's going to ruin his ass every day of his life.

[ - ] SumerBreeze 0 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 08:11:51 ago (+0/-0)

the bitches fuck up their relationships and stay on the market

And they mentally poison the younger impressionable ones.

[ - ] Merlynn 1 point 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 20:38:07 ago (+1/-0)

Well,they certainly try to.

[ - ] big_fat_dangus 4 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 00:46:02 ago (+6/-2)

Fear of starting over. No one wants to go back to being alone other than the occasional first date. Also, she may be just putting on a show for you personally.

[ - ] xmasskull 3 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 01:02:54 ago (+3/-0)

She, most likely, can suck a golf ball through (3) feet of garden hose.

[ - ] Anus_Expander 2 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 07:21:52 ago (+2/-0)

He is terrified of being alone, most people are. They will put up with anything. She is 'nice' just often enough for him to stay. She clearly doesn't respect him, and is probably cheating already. It won't last.

[ - ] DivineLight2 2 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 04:13:51 ago (+2/-0)

A man like that could get a fertile woman. He either likes being a bitch/wants mommy etc or has a girl on the side. In reality he should dump her and have kids.

[ - ] TheOriginal1Icemonkey 2 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 01:28:24 ago (+2/-0)

I think she was threatened by your presence and probably a bitch, but otherwise was throwing a fit due to some kind of insecurity.

[ - ] AlexanderMorose13 2 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 00:41:47 ago (+2/-0)

Meh, some guys are just like this. I knew another guy who tried to cheat on his girlfriend, and then failed, but she still found out. She refused to let him leave the relationship, and she hounds him every day about this one mistake he made years ago. I asked him directly why he would put up with such obvious abuse, and he gave me a laundry list of excuses, like how she could mess up his relationship with his parents who like her, or how he had made her a part owner of his own business prior to their fight, so she could destroy his main income source.

You can only learn how to get the relationship you want the hard way; by learning what you did wrong.

[ - ] Anus_Expander 0 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 07:24:25 ago (+0/-0)

Cheating is never a 'mistake' it's willful.

[ - ] AlexanderMorose13 0 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 10:23:45 ago (+0/-0)

Yes, but there are levels. It's bad enough to do once and then hide it, but trying and failing and then never trying again is something that I think should be forgiven after a long enough time. To punish someone every day is too harsh. Especially if they're apologetic about their mistakes.

In either case, who can judge? It's really up to us to decide.

[ - ] Anus_Expander 0 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 15:56:44 ago (+0/-0)

Only a cuck forgives. How do you ever trust them again?

[ - ] AlexanderMorose13 0 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 16:08:50 ago (+0/-0)

You don't, but you don't force them to stay with you, either. If they genuinely want to repent, that's a different story.

[ - ] Anus_Expander 1 point 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 16:24:40 ago (+1/-0)

There's an old saying in Tennessee — I know it's in Texas, probably in Tennessee — that says, fool me once, shame on — shame on you. Fool me — you can't get fooled again.

[ - ] AlexanderMorose13 0 points 2 monthsFeb 25, 2025 00:50:19 ago (+0/-0)

You wouldn't believe the amount of people that I've met who defy the obvious because they consider themselves so important that their relationship is "the exception to the rule."

There are some people out there who are absolutely hopeless when left alone with a relationship to validate their behavior and day to day existence. There are just as many others who don't want to leave a relationship, even though they've already crossed the necessary line that would destroy it. It doesn't have to happen overnight, either, it could be the result of one of drunk text to someone some night.

My point in saying all this and carrying this conversation on, is that sometimes, you can't change people from making bad or wrong decisions. Yes, we're both right and wrong here, but can either of us say that we know the best course of action?

[ - ] PotatoWhisperer2 1 point 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 14:17:26 ago (+1/-0)

Very “boss lady”— urban dweller, no kids, never married in her forties, makes a ridiculous amount of dough, very brash..<>.. she’d rather have a conversation about The Real Housewives than about how jews run the world

She’s not liberal

Yes she is, she just doesn't admit to it. She clearly fell ass over teakettle into the feminist jew propaganda. She lives like a modern liberal/feminist/jewish harpy, so she is one. Whatever she spouts out of her mouth is her trying to fit in to her environment. She's trying to chameleon but failing because she's too far down the jewish owned gynocentric propaganda machine.

I feel bad for the dude. There's not a lot of women out there that aren't inveterate whores. And it's a dangerous game to play now that could end you up in jail for life over a miffed lover. Believe it or not, she's not nearly the worst he's seen.

[ - ] dirtywhiteboy 2 points 2 monthsFeb 23, 2025 22:03:04 ago (+4/-2)

The pussy is probably made of gold.

[ - ] Peleg 3 points 2 monthsFeb 23, 2025 22:48:29 ago (+3/-0)

Naw. She doesn't have a gag reflex. When he starts nutting she just swallows and sucks harder.

[ - ] Her0n 1 point 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 10:16:00 ago (+1/-0)

Because of past trauma.

The nice guy uses subjugation to feel like he is worth a damn.

There's plenty of other stigma that he's embracing, but I can't get into the details right now.

Dude needs some hard-core therapy to help him realize how much he's fucking himself over.

[ - ] ModernGuilt 1 point 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 07:45:34 ago (+1/-0)

100% had an abusive mother

[ - ] albatrosv15 1 point 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 04:15:04 ago (+1/-0)

I bet she is fat and she is externalizing her insecurities towards the nearest person.

[ - ] dingbat [op] 1 point 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 07:06:27 ago (+1/-0)

No, she takes good care of herself. But she’s definitely insecure, which I did notice this weekend.

[ - ] albatrosv15 0 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 14:40:06 ago (+0/-0)

So the guy has a small dick?

[ - ] dingbat [op] 0 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 21:42:14 ago (+0/-0)

😂

[ - ] boekanier 1 point 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 01:48:58 ago (+1/-0)*

I think there are many cases like this. No wonder society is going down the drain.

[ - ] boekanier 1 point 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 01:45:36 ago (+1/-0)

I don't date bitches. I don't date at all (yes, those still exist)

[ - ] UncleDoug 1 point 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 00:17:06 ago (+1/-0)

Career orientated and too busy to spend time in the modern dating scene working out all its nuances and intricacies.

[ - ] NeonGreen 0 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 17:31:15 ago (+0/-0)

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This guy will eventually answer your question. Check out his content.

[ - ] CoronaHoax 0 points 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 07:19:36 ago (+0/-0)

Having kids is pretty stressful. What pops out of it from both isn’t always perfect.

I live with a child and have to fuckin’ do EVERYTHING around here

I bet if he had a work trip he’d come back and her completely humbled for a moment and completely singed to a nub burn out. Handfuls of shit probably in shit shape or undone.

And if she left for a week he’d have a full days work everyday but otherwise everything would be fine and he’d otherwise wouldn’t notice it or complain.

[ - ] dingbat [op] 1 point 2 monthsFeb 24, 2025 13:50:56 ago (+1/-0)

She was calling HIM the child! 🤣