I told her as everyone else, not to post pictures of my kids online. She agreed. I just found out she posted a bunch MONTHS ago, got heaps of like and her privacy setting for it is "Friends of Friends" so God knows how many people have access. I am so pissed off. Close friends and family have been mostly really good about not posting my kids online (a couple of slip ups were quickly removed on request).
I'm trying not to be such a cunt IRL. This is a person I can't really avoid and would like to me amicable with.
Not sure how to phrase it politely so any suggestions welcome. Consider this your reminder to not let anyone who isn't you or your spouse to take photos of your kids.
"I noticed you posted pics of x and x. I really need you to take them down (and not post pics of my kids ever again) as we agreed to a while ago." Something like that?
We've always been subject to human weakness, true. Technology can introduce efficiencies in many ways however, including easing and/or amplifying the participation in/consumption of vice.
e.g., there have always been hoo-ers, tinder just made it easier to find them.
[ - ] blit416 1 point 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 23:14:31 ago (+1/-0)
Kids have been getting stolen for a long time. My grandmother warned me about a beautiful cherubic blond little boy in our family : "Watch him, they'll steal him!" She never said who "They" were. It wasn't something to be discussed.
1. Why is she posting pics of your kids? 2. How does she have thee pics in the first place? 3. If she's not respecting your request, she doesn't respect you. Don't worry about not being a cunt because she doesn't respect your wishes. 4. If she doesn't stop, make her seem like a creep for posting pictures of other people's kids. Make a comment on every single picture that she does it with, so everyone can see her weirdo factor.
[ - ] Cunt [op] 2 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 19:39:12 ago (+2/-0)
1. Narcissistic bitches need attention 2. She took them. 3. I know she doesn't respect me prior to thus but she knows about paedophiles so I thought she might have some decency in her. 4. So keen.
Just be frank with her and tell her that you would like her to either take down those pictures or if it's a group photo, put a big black box over your kids. That's not rude. Remind her that you have already discussed this but perhaps she "forgot". If she refuses or acts like you're being unreasonable, she's not someone you want in your life anyway.
“Have you ever picked up your teeth with broken fingers? You have until tomorrow to get my kids photos off your shit or you’re going to be trying that shit out.”
[ + ] gabara
[ - ] gabara 2 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 11:49:15 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] NeedleStack
[ - ] NeedleStack 6 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 11:58:02 ago (+6/-0)
[ + ] ParnellsUprising
[ - ] ParnellsUprising 3 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 15:53:37 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] mikenigger
[ - ] mikenigger 0 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 12:02:56 ago (+0/-0)*
she knows, that's why she doesn't give a shit and this is not going to change if you don't get serious
[ + ] Cunt
[ - ] Cunt [op] 0 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 19:40:40 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] mikenigger
[ - ] mikenigger 0 points 3.8 yearsJul 24, 2021 06:51:39 ago (+0/-0)
it doesn't have to be, get a lawyer. they know how to play this, you don't.
[ + ] yesiknow
[ - ] yesiknow 12 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 12:22:07 ago (+12/-0)
Hi SomeBitch.
I'm sorry, I thought you knew I'm not comfortable having photos of my children posted on line. Could you please remove them.
Thanks, SaneParent.
[ + ] Splooge
[ - ] Splooge 9 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 12:29:13 ago (+9/-0)
I told him that’s not a good idea but he ignored me.
So one day, after he asked me what I thought of some picture he posted of his kid playing, I replied:
“She looks happy. I wonder how many pedophiles you helped get their rocks off.”
He’s stopped posting his kid since and all the privacy settings have changed on his old posts.
I’ll get him the rest of the way eventually.
[ + ] fightknightHERO
[ - ] fightknightHERO 4 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 12:53:07 ago (+4/-0)
man, these are truly dark days...
[ + ] Willy
[ - ] Willy 4 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 13:16:28 ago (+4/-0)
[ + ] Garrett
[ - ] Garrett 4 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 13:47:02 ago (+4/-0)
[ + ] Fascinus
[ - ] Fascinus 2 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 13:30:53 ago (+2/-0)
e.g., there have always been hoo-ers, tinder just made it easier to find them.
[ + ] Willy
[ - ] Willy 1 point 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 13:42:38 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] blit416
[ - ] blit416 1 point 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 23:14:31 ago (+1/-0)
She never said who "They" were. It wasn't something to be discussed.
[ + ] Deleted
[ - ] deleted 15 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 13:17:43 ago (+15/-0)
[ + ] Broc_Liath
[ - ] Broc_Liath 7 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 14:35:33 ago (+7/-0)
[ + ] Cunt
[ - ] Cunt [op] 1 point 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 19:27:53 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] account deleted by user
[ - ] account deleted by user 5 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 13:20:38 ago (+5/-0)
[ + ] Broc_Liath
[ - ] Broc_Liath 5 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 14:37:08 ago (+5/-0)
[ + ] derpfroot
[ - ] derpfroot 4 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 13:28:47 ago (+4/-0)*
2. How does she have thee pics in the first place?
3. If she's not respecting your request, she doesn't respect you. Don't worry about not being a cunt because she doesn't respect your wishes.
4. If she doesn't stop, make her seem like a creep for posting pictures of other people's kids. Make a comment on every single picture that she does it with, so everyone can see her weirdo factor.
[ + ] Cunt
[ - ] Cunt [op] 2 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 19:39:12 ago (+2/-0)
2. She took them.
3. I know she doesn't respect me prior to thus but she knows about paedophiles so I thought she might have some decency in her.
4. So keen.
[ + ] Jiggggg
[ - ] Jiggggg 2 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 14:11:10 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus 1 point 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 14:22:27 ago (+1/-0)
Rip that cunt's head off. If you're gonna get mean ever, get mean for your kids.
[ + ] MasklessTheGreat
[ - ] MasklessTheGreat 4 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 15:03:06 ago (+4/-0)
“Have you ever picked up your teeth with broken fingers? You have until tomorrow to get my kids photos off your shit or you’re going to be trying that shit out.”
[ + ] SilentByAssociation
[ - ] SilentByAssociation 0 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 20:58:28 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] SilentByAssociation
[ - ] SilentByAssociation 0 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 15:39:42 ago (+0/-0)
Confront her about it. As a consequence of not honoring your request, no more photos with the children. She can't be trusted.
[ + ] account deleted by user
[ - ] account deleted by user 2 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 16:53:08 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] AloisH
[ - ] AloisH 0 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 18:46:14 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] account deleted by user
[ - ] account deleted by user 1 point 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 20:30:44 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] 2Drunk
[ - ] 2Drunk 0 points 3.8 yearsJul 23, 2021 20:50:37 ago (+0/-0)