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How I let my temper reveal my whole dark side at the new job (while thinking i was being very reasonable)

submitted by Dindu to TellTalk 8 monthsAug 8, 2024 17:12:03 ago (+6/-0)     (TellTalk)

What happened to me was definitely disrespectful nobody debated that.

First I think when I see that guy tomorrow we are going to have a private conversation

Then I think this can't wait till tomorrow. I'm not thinking about this for 24 hours

My only mode of communication is the mass text that goes to everybody

Okay here I go I'm going to send a text to everybody

Draft 1
I know I replaced a black guy but I am definitely not your nigger

Okay now that I got that out of my system delete and start over. Im a reasonable man. Such a reasonable guy. Okay here goes reasonable

Proceed to send what i thought was reasonable but come off very combative.

I immediately get called into the office to explain everything. Start to explain the incident. All of a sudden out comes my Jersey accent which is a South Jersey accent which if you've never heard one is very crazy. I usually suppress it. Im probably sneering and lifting my lip like elvis and theyre probably like who is this guy all the sudden.

Within only a few minutes everyone knows I'm an asshole and the bosses met a whole new guy that never comes out until i feel disrespected.



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[ - ] Zyklonbeekeeper 4 points 8 monthsAug 8, 2024 17:26:00 ago (+4/-0)

It's not hard in this day and age to appear combative, upon completion of an HR session one should always leave with bloodied knuckles.

[ - ] 9000timesempty 4 points 8 monthsAug 8, 2024 19:04:54 ago (+4/-0)

Broooo

Im in the same position.

They want you to just lay down and take it and then when you lash out everything gets so dicey yet you're sitting there wondering why they took that direction to begin with... the scum that they are.

[ - ] TheSimulacra 2 points 8 monthsAug 8, 2024 19:03:13 ago (+3/-1)

You are the nigger.
You didn't replace anyone, he let you have the job.
Now the nigger is free and you are in his chains.

[ - ] Dindu [op] 0 points 8 monthsAug 8, 2024 19:07:47 ago (+0/-0)

Oh noooo

[ - ] Gowithit 1 point 8 monthsAug 8, 2024 17:15:23 ago (+1/-0)

I know I replaced a black guy but I am definitely not your nigger

haha inb4@sector2 saying but you are

my husband threw a trashcan at a black co worker and still has a job there. I dont know what you did but I think you'll be fine.

whats the story?

[ - ] Sector2 1 point 8 monthsAug 8, 2024 17:27:32 ago (+1/-0)

I was going to stop at race mixer, but imagine literally talking to a nigger! Okay, back to my Ivory Tower. o/

[ - ] Dindu [op] 1 point 8 monthsAug 8, 2024 17:29:52 ago (+1/-0)

Okay i figured out that your definition of race mixing is talking to other races. Now i get it

[ - ] Sector2 1 point 8 monthsAug 8, 2024 23:26:50 ago (+1/-0)

Yeah, given that "you become like the people you spend the most time with", contact with niggers in any real life capacity will contaminate you. Movies and videos might not be quite as infectious, but there's still some cultural transference occuring.

[ - ] Dindu [op] 0 points 8 monthsAug 8, 2024 17:26:16 ago (+0/-0)

Just two dudes having a bad time at the same time and colliding. I took it personal and wondered if maybe I am the slave here.

[ - ] xmasskull 1 point 8 monthsAug 8, 2024 17:16:07 ago (+1/-0)

50-50,You have a job next week,month? Or,much less serious?

[ - ] Dindu [op] 1 point 8 monthsAug 8, 2024 17:22:38 ago (+1/-0)

I had to send a second soothing mass text. That took talent. With my immediate crew and boss i kind of made myself understood by the end of the day. But it set the timer huh. Probably a month or so but i only wanted to last 3 months.

[ - ] xmasskull 1 point 8 monthsAug 8, 2024 17:30:20 ago (+1/-0)

I'm pretty sure you feel a helluva lot better,frustation can surface @ the most inconvenient times.

I Salute You!

[ - ] 9000timesempty 0 points 8 monthsAug 8, 2024 19:06:33 ago (+0/-0)

If you do have the experience and the expertise then you should be able to power move your experience to make changes in your department but if you're just there to do a certain task nobody is going to care and you will be removed.

[ - ] Lost_In_The_Thinking 0 points 8 monthsAug 8, 2024 18:56:36 ago (+0/-0)

I completely understand how you feel -- I myself have a temper that I keep in check with a great deal of self-control, and it always embarrasses me when I let it out. I also understand the dilemma of not wanting to stew on it overnight and wanting the immediate gratification of getting it over with, but it's always a mistake to take it public. That should have been dealt with privately the next day.

But hey, that's me and my personality. It's all how you manage the fallout. It looks for now you're over the worst of it.

[ - ] NoRefunds 0 points 8 monthsAug 9, 2024 10:49:34 ago (+0/-0)

South Jersey accent

Hahah I wish I could do one

met a whole new guy

They know who Tony Soprano is

[ - ] MaryXmas -1 points 8 monthsAug 8, 2024 20:20:29 ago (+0/-1)

You are weak. You lost control. I would get fired for saying nigger, you might too. Learn how to master your emotions, that is an absolute requirement. If you can't master your emotions, you become the nigger.

[ - ] beece -1 points 8 monthsAug 8, 2024 22:15:50 ago (+0/-1)

Use your words. WTF, are you retarded? ...................................hope that helped:-)